I'm following this lecture notes on functional analysis where Lemma 12.2.7 (page 7) states the following:
Lemma: Let $H$ be a complex Hilbert space and $Q: H \to \mathbb{C}$ be a function. Then, the following are equivalent:
(i) There exists exactly one operator $A \in \mathcal{L}(\mathcal{H})$ such that $Q(x) = \langle Ax, x\rangle$ for all $x \in H$
(ii) There is a constant $C>0$ such that $|Q(x)| \le C||x||^{2}$, $Q(x+y)+Q(x-y)=2Q(x)+2Q(y)$ and $Q(\lambda x) = |\lambda|^{2}Q(x)$ for all $x,y \in H$ and $\lambda \in \mathbb{C}$.
Now, I'm interested in the implication (ii) $\Rightarrow$ (i). The reasoning is sketched in the notes but I don't seem to understand the proof. The first step is to consider $\Psi(x,y)$, defined by: $$\Psi(x,y) = \frac{1}{4}[Q(x+y)-Q(x-y)+iQ(x+iy)-iQ(x-iy)]$$ and then define $A$ by setting: \begin{eqnarray} Ax := \sum_{\alpha \in I}\Psi(x,e_{\alpha})e_{\alpha} \tag{1}\label{1} \end{eqnarray} where $\{e_{\alpha}\}_{\alpha \in I}$ is a Hilbert basis.
Question 1: What does the sum (\ref{1}) mean? I mean, what is the notion of convergence behind it? Is it well-defined (i.e. does this sum always converge?)
Question 2: Supposedly, one must have $\langle Ax,y\rangle = \Psi(x,y)$, but I don't know how this follows. I think the approach here would be: take $y \in H$ and write $y = \sum_{\alpha \in I}y_{\alpha}e_{\alpha}$ (this sum is actually a countable one). Then, I think the idea is to write: $$\langle Ax, y\rangle = \sum_{\alpha\in I}\Psi(x,e_{\alpha})y_{\alpha}$$ but how come does the latter become $\Psi(x,y)$?
Note: I added the tag 'alternative-proof' because I'd be happy to see an alternative (and easier) proof, if somebody knows one.
I am assuming that $\{e_{\alpha}\}_{\alpha}$ is orthonormal and that $x=\sum_{\alpha\in I}\langle x,e_{\alpha}\rangle e_{\alpha}.$ The sum has only countably many non-zero terms (why?) so we may take it to be countable.
If you recognize that the definition of $\Psi$ is through an analogue of the polarization identity,, then the way forward falls out. The key fact is that
$\displaystyle \langle x,\ y\rangle ={\frac {1}{4}}\left(\|x+y\|^{2}-\|x-y\|^{2}+i\|x-iy\|^{2}-i\|x+iy\|^{2}\right)$,
Now we have
$\Psi(x,y) = \frac{1}{4}|[Q(x+y)-Q(x-y)+iQ(x+iy)-iQ(x-iy)]$
Using the conditions on $Q$, you can show that $|\Psi(x,e_{\alpha})|\le C'|\langle x,e_{\alpha}\rangle|$ for some constant $C'$.
It follows that $\sum_{\alpha \in I}\Psi(x,e_{\alpha})e_{\alpha}$ converges. The rest of the exercise is a calculation.