Question: Consider the quadrature rule $$\int_{-1}^1 f(x)dx \approx w_{-1}f(-1)+w_0f(0)+w_1f(1)+w'_0f'(0)$$
Compute the weights such that the polynomial is exact up to degree 3.
Answer: When I computed the coefficients I got that $$w_0'=0, w_1=1/3,w_0=4/3,w_{-1}=1/3$$
I was wondering if the fact that one of these weights is $0$ means that I don't get the degree 3 exactness?
I was thinking this since I think I get $n-1$ accuracy when the degree is n.
Assuming you found those coefficients by substituting $f(x) = 1, x , x^2, x^3$ into the quadrature rule and solving the $4\times 4$ linear system with variables $w_{-1}, w_0, w_1, w_0'$, then the answer to your question is no; the quadrature rule with coefficients found above is, by construction, exact for polynomials of degree at most 3.