Let $V$ be a vector space and let$ \langle,\rangle_1$ and $\ \langle,\rangle_2$ be inner products in $V$ s.t. $\langle,\rangle_1=0 \iff \langle,\rangle_2=0$.
Prove $ \langle v,w\rangle_1=c\langle v,w\rangle_2$ for every $v,w \in V$.
I've been struggling coming up with a solution for this. This is what I have so far:
Let $U$ be a subspace of $V$. We know $\ U \oplus U^{\bot}=V$ for $\langle,\rangle_1$ and $\langle,\rangle_2$.
Let $\ B=\{u_1,...u_n\}$ be an orthonormal basis for $U$ and $\ C=\{v_1,...v_k\}$ an orthonormal basis for $\ U^{\bot}$ under $\langle,\rangle_1$.
$\ B'=\{\frac{u_1}{||u_1||},...,\frac{u_n}{||u_n||}\}$ is an orthonormal basis for $U$ and $\ C'=\{\frac{v_1}{||v_1||},...,\frac{v_k}{||v_k||}\}$ an orthonormal basis for $\ U^{\bot}$ under $\langle,\rangle_2$.
Take$\ u \in B $ and $\ v \in C$. If I prove for base vectors the argument is valid for any vector in the subspace.
I'd like to find the ratio using the norms of the bases B' and C', I'm not sure how to get at it and if this is the right direction.
You are going in the right direction, but there are some unnecessary complications.
There is no need to split the space into a direct sum. Just pick an orthonormal basis $\{v_1,v_2,\ldots,v_N\}$ of $V$ (suppose its dimension is $N$) with respect to $\langle,\rangle_1$. Then this basis is at least an orthogonal basis with respect to $\langle,\rangle_2$.
Now, for every pair of distinct $i,j$, consider $x=v_i+v_j$ and $y=v_i-v_j$ and their inner products with respect to both $\langle,\rangle_1$ and $\langle,\rangle_2$. The rest should be straightforward.