$\rho$ is a binary relation on $\mathbb R\times \mathbb R$ defined by: $$(a,b)\rho(c,d)\iff(a<c \lor (a=c \wedge b\leq d))$$ Is $\rho$ a partial order relation on $\mathbb R\times \mathbb R$? Is it a total order? Check for the partial order: reflexivity: $$(a,b)\rho(a,b)\iff (a<a\lor (a=a \wedge b\leq b)$$ yes.
antysimmetry - $\forall(a,b),(c,d)\in \mathbb R^2,(a,b)\rho(c,d)\wedge(c,d)\rho (a,b)\overset{?}\iff (a,b)=(c,d)$$\iff a=c\wedge b=d$ $$(c,d)\rho(a,b)\iff (c<a\lor(c=a\wedge d\leq b)$$ no.
transitivity: $\forall (a,b),(c,d),(e,f)\in \mathbb R^2\;\;\; (a,b)\rho(c,d) \wedge (c,d)\rho(e,f)\overset{?}\implies (a,b)\rho(e,f)$
$\rho$ is neither a partial order nor a total order relation. Can I just stop after non-antisimmetry? If it happened to be antisymmetric, would I have to write all the cases for transitivity condition?
Sure. If you know a relation is not anti-symmetric, you know it's not a total order. Moreover, you don't even need to prove it in all generality as you did: if you wanted to use a specific pair of ordered pairs, you could do that since a single counterexample is enough to rule out antisymmetry.
This idea holds in general: if something has a list of conditions it needs in order to be the definition of $X$ thing, and it doesn't meet any one of those conditions, that alone is sufficient to say it is not $X$ thing.
Not that the practice in proving transitivity would be a bad thing!
That said, I'm not convinced this relation isn't anti-symmetric.
Suppose $(a,b)\rho(c,d)$ and $(c,d)\rho(a,b)$. If it follows $(a,b)=(c,d)$, we have antisymmetry.
By $(a,b)\rho(c,d)$, we know
From $(c,d)\rho(a,b)$, we know
Since both are true simultaneously, we cannot have $a<c<a$, so $(1),(3)$ do not hold. Thus, $a=c$. If we have $b \le d \le b$, which must hold since $a=c$, then $b=d$. And thus $(a,b)=(c,d)$.
Thus, anti-symmetry, I believe, unless I overlooked something.