Say $E_1,...E_n\subset\{1,2,...,k\}= K$, each $|E_i|=4$ and each $j\in K$ appear in at most $3$ sets $E_i$. We choose from each $E_i$ one number. Prove that we can do that so that a set of all choosen numbers has not more than ${3k\over 7}$ members.
This was my try but the bound I get is not good and also I'm not even sure if it is correct.
We choose at random from each $E_i$ independently a number with a probability $p=1/4$ (so we can chose the same number more then once) and name this number $c_i$. Let $M$ be a set of choosen numbers and let $X=|M|$. If $X_i$ is indicator random variable for a number $i\in K$ then $$E(X) = E(X_1)+...+E(X_k)$$
Say $i$ is in a sets $E_1,...E_{d_i}$, where $d_i\leq 3$, then \begin{eqnarray}E(X_i) &=& P(X_i=1) \\ &=& P(\{i=c_1\}\cup ...\cup \{i=c_{d_i}\})\\ &=&1-P(\{i\ne c_1\}\cap ...\cap \{i\ne c_{d_i}\})\\ &=&1-P(i\ne c_1)\dots P(i\ne c_{d_i})\\ &=&1-\Big({3\over 4}\Big)^{d_i}\\ \end{eqnarray}
So we have $$E(X)= k-\sum _{i=1}^k\Big({3\over 4}\Big)^{d_i}\leq k-k\Big({3\over 4}\Big)^3$$
So $E(X) \leq {37k\over 64}$ which is not good enough.
Anyone solve this one with a probabilistic method gets bounty 500pt.
Here is an atempt with no sucsess. Any idea how to fix it?
Suppose we take each element from $K$ at random and independently with probability $p={3\over 7}$. Let $S$ be a set of a choosen elements. Then $|S|\leq {3k\over 7}$.
Let $X$ be a number of all sets among $E_1,...,E_n$ that intersection with $S$ is nonempty. We are interested if $P(X=n)>0$ i.e.
$$P((S\cap E_1 \ne \emptyset) \cap (S\cap E_2 \ne \emptyset)\cap...\cap (S\cap E_n \ne \emptyset))>0$$
which is the same as $$1>P((S\cap E_1 = \emptyset) \cup (S\cap E_2 =\emptyset)\cup...\cup (S\cap E_n = \emptyset))$$
Say $E_i=\{a,b,c,d\}$. Now we have $$\color{red}{P(S\cap E_i=\emptyset)= P(a\notin S\cap b\notin S\cap c\notin S\cap d\notin S) = ({4\over 7})^4}$$
(Is this correct?)
So we have by the union bound $$P(\bigcup _{i=1}^n S\cap E_i)\leq n ({4\over 7})^4 \leq {3k\over 4}({4\over 7})^4 $$
which is not good since it goes over $1$ (if $k\geq 22$). Any help here?