It is well known that the setwise limit of a sequence of measures is a measure.
Is the same true for nets? (Note that the proof given in the link above relies crucially on Radon-Nikodym, and so it only works for sequences.)
A reference would also be welcome.
The result of the MSE post you linked can indeed be generalized to nets.
The set function $\nu$ is obviously finitely additive and satisfies $|\nu(B)|\leq\mu(B)$ for every $B\in\mathcal B$. It follows that $\lim_{n\to\infty}\nu(B_n)=0$ for every decreasing sequence $(B_n)_{n\in\mathbb N}$ of elements of $\mathcal B$ with empty intersection. From this property combined with finite additivity, it can be checked that $\nu$ is countably additive. Indeed, if $(A_n)_{n\in\mathbb N}$ is a sequence of pairwise disjoint sets in $\mathcal B$ with union $A$, then $$\sum_{n\in\mathbb N}\nu(A_n)=\lim_{n\to\infty}\nu\mathopen{}\left(\bigcup_{k=0}^nA_k\right)=\lim_{n\to\infty}\nu\mathopen{}\left(A\setminus\bigcup_{k>n}A_k\right)=\lim_{n\to\infty}\left(\nu(A)-\nu\mathopen{}\left(\bigcup_{k>n}A_k\right)\right)=\nu(A)$$ because $(\bigcup_{k>n}A_k)_{n\in\mathbb N}$ is a decreasing sequence of elements of $\mathcal B$ with empty intersection.
Remark: If $\mu$ is a finite positive measure on $\mathcal B$ and $\lambda$ is a complex finitely additive function on $\mathcal B$ that is absolutely continuous with respect to $\mu$ (in the sense of "for every $\varepsilon>0$, there is a $\delta>0$ such that for every $B\in\mathcal B$, the relation $\mu(B)\leq\delta$ implies $|\lambda(B)|\leq\varepsilon$"), it is once again true that $\lim_{n\to\infty}\lambda(B_n)=0$ for every decreasing sequence $(B_n)_{n\in\mathbb N}$ of elements of $\mathcal B$ with empty intersection.
So you can get more general results such as
The condition written in quantifiers here is pretty much what is obtained during the proof of the Vitali-Hahn-Saks theorem presented on Wikipedia. A practical situation in which this condition is satisfied is when there is an index $\kappa\in I$ such that $\nu_\iota\ll\mu$ for every $\iota\geq\kappa$ and such that the family $(d\nu_\iota/d\mu)_{\iota\geq\kappa}$ is uniformly integrable with respect to $\mu$.