I would like to prove the following: $$\ln\left(\dfrac{n+(-1)^{n}\sqrt{n}+a}{n+(-1)^{n}\sqrt{n}+b} \right)=\dfrac{a-b}{n}+\mathcal{O}\left(\dfrac{1}{n^2} \right) $$
My attempt
i tried this way but i didn't get what i want :
\begin{align*} \ln\left(\dfrac{n+(-1)^{n}\sqrt{n}+a}{n+(-1)^{n}\sqrt{n}+b} \right)&=\ln\left(\dfrac{1+\dfrac{(-1)^{n}}{\sqrt{n}}+\dfrac{a}{n}}{1+\dfrac{(-1)^{n}}{\sqrt{n}}+\dfrac{b}{n}} \right) \\ &= \ln\left(\left( 1+\dfrac{(-1)^{n}}{\sqrt{n}}+\dfrac{a}{n}\right)\left(1+\dfrac{(-1)^{n}}{\sqrt{n}}+\dfrac{b}{n}\right)^{-1} \right) \\ &= \ln\left(\left( 1+\dfrac{(-1)^{n}}{\sqrt{n}}+\dfrac{a}{n}\right)\left(1-\dfrac{(-1)^{n}}{\sqrt{n}}-\dfrac{b}{n}+\mathcal{O}\left( \dfrac{1}{n}\right)\right) \right) \\ &=\ln\left( 1+\dfrac{a-b}{n}-\dfrac{(-1)^{n}}{\sqrt{n}}-\dfrac{1}{n}+\mathcal{O}\left( \dfrac{1}{n}\right) \right) \end{align*}
Your approach until $$ \ln\left(\left( 1+\dfrac{(-1)^{n}}{\sqrt{n}}+\dfrac{a}{n}\right)\left(1+\dfrac{(-1)^{n}}{\sqrt{n}}+\dfrac{b}{n}\right)^{-1} \right) \\$$ is correct.
After that, we use $\ln (1+x) = x - \frac {x^2}2 + \frac{x^3}3+O(x^4)$ with $|x|< 1 $.
We have $$ \ln \left( 1+\dfrac{(-1)^{n}}{\sqrt{n}}+\dfrac{a}{n}\right) =\frac{(-1)^n}{\sqrt n} + \frac an - \frac12\left(\frac1n+ \frac{2(-1)^na}{n\sqrt n}\right)+\frac13 \left(\frac{(-1)^n}{n\sqrt n} \right)+O\left(\frac1{n^2}\right) $$ By the same way, $$ \ln \left( 1+\dfrac{(-1)^{n}}{\sqrt{n}}+\dfrac{b}{n}\right) =\frac{(-1)^n}{\sqrt n} + \frac bn - \frac12\left(\frac1n+ \frac{2(-1)^nb}{n\sqrt n}\right)+\frac13 \left(\frac{(-1)^n}{n\sqrt n} \right)+O\left(\frac1{n^2}\right) $$ Subtracting the latter from the former, we have
$$ \ln\left(\left( 1+\dfrac{(-1)^{n}}{\sqrt{n}}+\dfrac{a}{n}\right)\left(1+\dfrac{(-1)^{n}}{\sqrt{n}}+\dfrac{b}{n}\right)^{-1} \right) =\frac{a-b}n - \frac{ (-1)^n(a-b)}{n\sqrt n} + O\left(\frac1{n^2}\right).$$
Therefore, the stated formula does not hold when $a\neq b$.