I would like to show:
$$\lim_{ h\to 0} \frac{a^h-1}{h}=\ln(a)$$
So I've got two questions:
1) Find the value of $\lim_{h\to 0}(a^h-1)/h$. You don't know that the answer is $\ln(a)$, you can't guess, so you have to derive it without using it. You can only use the $\lim_{n\to\infty}(1+1/n)^n$ definition for $e$. The definition for $\ln(a)=x$ is $e^x=a$.
2) Show that $\lim_{h\to 0}(a^h-1)/h$ and $\ln(a)$ is the same by whatever means.
Hint: Substituting $$a^h-1=m$$ so $$h=\frac{\ln(m+1)}{\ln(a)}$$ and we get $$\frac{a^h-1}{h}=\frac{\ln(a)}{\ln(m+1)^{1/m}}$$ Since $h$ tends to zero, $m$ tends to zero.