For the relation $$\vert x \vert = \vert y \vert$$
this consists of all the pairs $(\vert -a \vert,\vert a \vert)$
Clearly $$\vert x \vert = \vert x \vert$$ and $$\vert y \vert = \vert y \vert$$
for example $\vert 2 \vert = \vert 2 \vert$ and say $\vert 4 \vert = \vert 4 \vert$
Thus the relation is reflexive
Clearly if $\vert x \vert = \vert y \vert$ then $\vert y \vert = \vert x \vert$
for example $\vert 3 \vert =\vert -3 \vert$ or $\vert -3 \vert = \vert 3 \vert$
Thus the relation is symmetric
If $\vert x \vert = \vert y \vert$ and $\vert y \vert = \vert z \vert$
Clearly $\vert x \vert = \vert z \vert$
Thus the relation is transitive.
Not sure how to show an example for the transitive property. I feel like this relation is pretty much self explanatory. Am I right that this consists of the pairs $(\vert -a \vert,\vert a \vert)$? Are my proofs without the examples acceptable? Are my examples correct? Can I improve my answer at all?
For the transitive property you could show that
Since $|x|=|y|$ then $|x|-|y|=0$.
Since $|y|=|z|$ then $|y|-|z|=0$.
Then $$0=\\0+0=\\(|x|-|y|)+(|y|-|z|)=\\|x|-|z|$$ Since $0=|x|-|z|$ then $|x|=|z|$