$$bx^3 = 10a^2bx + 3a^3y$$ $$ay^3 = 10ab^2y + 3b^3x$$
I tried putting $bx = p$ and $ay = q$ resulting into system of equations: $$p^3 = 10a^2b^2p + 3a^2b^2q$$ $$q^3 = 10a^2b^2q + 3a^2b^2p$$ Subtracting both I got $$p = q$$ OR $$p^2 + pq + q^2 = 7a^2b^2$$
Putting $p = q$ in cubic equations of $p$ and $q$, I got $p = 0$ or $p = ±√13ab$ implying , $bx = 0$ or $bx = ±√13ab$ i.e., $x = 0$ or $x = ±√13a$ and similarly $y = 0$ or $y = ±√13b$ but there are more values needed to be found. I am not getting how to proceed further. Please help in this direction.
Suppose that $a,b$ are nonzero. Taking the resultant of both polynomials in $x$ and $y$, with respect to $x$, we obtain $$ (13b^2 - y^2)(7b^2 - y^2)(3b + y)(3b - y)(b + y)(b - y)=0. $$ This yields all nontrivial solutions. Alternatively, you can eliminate $x$ from the second equation, provided that $b\neq 0$ and then substitute this in the first equation. Factoring gives then again the above solutions.