1.Prove the every group G of order 4 is isomorphic to either Z4 or 4-group V,that is {1 (1,2)(3,4) (1,3)(2,4) (1,4)(2,3)}
2.If G is a group with $|G|\leq 5$ then G is abelian.
I have learned independently the chapter 1 of the book An introduction to group theory by Joseph Rotman . And can understand it ,can solve many exercises in it.I can understand the proofs in chapter 2 , however I totally don't have any intuition of the exercises. Does any suggestion?
Chandru1 Answered 2 pretty adequately. I'll focus on part 1 of your question.
Take $x\in G$ not the identity. By Lagrange's theorem the order of this element is either $2$ or $4$. If it is order four, you can map it to the generator $1$ of $\mathbb{Z}_4$. It is not hard to establish that this generates an isomorphism.
If $x$ has order $2$, you can look to the other elements. If none of these elements are of order $4$, you have that every square in this group is the identity. It is not hard to establish the required isomorphism to $V$ in this case.