I have a homework question I am a bit confused on.
Let $S_n$ act on the set of ordered pairs $(i,j)$, $1\leq i,j \leq n$ such that $\omega \cdot (i,j)= (\omega i,\omega j)$.
I have already proved that there are two orbits. One containing all ordered pairs $i=j$ and the other all other ordered pairs.
I am having trouble finding the stabilizer of these orbits considering they are both infinite and just generally struggling with deciphering how to find stabilizers.
Any Help is greatly appreciated.Thanks!
They are not infinite at all, there are only finitely many choices for $(i,j)$ namely $n^2$, $n$ choices for the first entry and $n$ for the second.
So for the orbit stabilizer theorem, you know that if $C_x$ is the stabilizer of $x$ then
So for the diagonal orbit, i.e. the orbit of $(i,i)$ we know that since the orbit is all other diagonal elements, the stabilizer size must have size $n!/n=(n-1)!$ which suggests the stabilizer is a copy of $S_{n-1}$. Indeed we see that the subgroup of $S_n$ which uses just the symbols which are not $i$ forms a copy of $S_{n-1}$ which stabilizes $(i,i)$ hence must be the entire stabilizer by noting the cardinalities match.
Similarly we see that the remaining elements are all in the same orbit, which has size $n^2-n=n(n-1)$, so $n!/n(n-1)=(n-2)!$.
This suggests the stabilizer might be a copy of $S_{n-2}$ and indeed it is, consider the copy of $S_{n-2}$ which uses all symbols except $i$ and $j$, this has the right order and it clearly stabilizes $(i,j)$ so by the theorem it must be the entire stabilizer.