Let the following symmetric matrix $A = \left[ \matrix{a_{12}+a_{13} & -a_{12} & -a_{13} \\ -a_{12} & a_{12}+a_{23} & -a_{23} \\ -a_{13} & -a_{23} & a_{13}+a_{23} } \right]$,
where each $a_{ij}$ is a nonnegative real number, and hence, $A$ is a symmetric positive semidefinite matrix, because:
$ x^T A x = (a_{12}+a_{13}) x_{1}^2 + (a_{12}+a_{23}) x_{2}^2 + (a_{13}+a_{23}) x_{3}^2 - 2( a_{12} x_1 x_2 + a_{13} x_1 x_3 + a_{23} x_2 x_3 ) \\ = a_{12}(x_1 - x_2)^2 + a_{13}(x_1 - x_3)^2 + a_{23}(x_2 - x_3)^2 \geq 0 $
On the other hand:
Let $B = A + D = \left[ \matrix{a_{12}+a_{13} & -a_{12} & -a_{13} \\ -a_{12} & a_{12}+a_{23} & -a_{23} \\ -a_{13} & -a_{23} & a_{13}+a_{23} } \right] + \left[ \matrix{d_{11} & & \\ & d_{22} & \\ & & d_{33} } \right]$,
where $d_{ii} \in \mathbb{R}$, that is, $D$ is a diagonal matrix with positive and negative real numbers.
What are the limits of $d_{ii}$ so that B is still a positive semidefinite matrix?
By Sylvester's criterion, $A+D$ is positive semidefinite if and only if all principal minors of $A+D$ are nonnegative. In other words, $A+D$ is PSD iff \begin{aligned} &d_1+a_{12}+a_{13}\ge0,\\ &d_2+a_{12}+a_{23}\ge0,\\ &d_3+a_{13}+a_{23}\ge0,\\ &(d_1+a_{12}+a_{13})(d_2+a_{12}+a_{23})\ge a_{12}^2,\\ &(d_1+a_{12}+a_{13})(d_3+a_{13}+a_{23})\ge a_{13}^2,\\ &(d_2+a_{12}+a_{23})(d_3+a_{13}+a_{23})\ge a_{23}^2\\ \end{aligned} and \begin{aligned} &(d_1+a_{12}+a_{13})(d_2+a_{12}+a_{23})(d_3+a_{13}+a_{23})\\ -&a_{23}^2(d_1+a_{12}+a_{13}) -a_{13}^2(d_2+a_{12}+a_{23}) -a_{12}^2(d_3+a_{13}+a_{23}) -2a_{12}a_{13}a_{23} \ge0. \end{aligned} The region bounded by these surfaces is typically not a translated octant of $\mathbb R^3_+$. Therefore, we cannot find a vector $(d_1',d_2',d_3')$ such that $A+D$ is positive semidefinite if and only if $(d_1,d_2,d_3)\ge(d_1',d_2',d_3')$.
To illustrate, consider the analogous case where $A$ is $2\times2$. If $A$ is nonzero, by scaling $A$, we may assume that $$ A=\pmatrix{1&-1\\ -1&1}. $$ In this case, if $D=\operatorname{diag}(d_1,d_2)$, then $A+D$ is positive semidefinite if and only if $d_1+1\ge0,\ d_2+1\ge0$ and $(d_1+1)(d_2+1)\ge1$. That is, the feasible region of $(d_1,d_2)$ is the region above the upper right branch of the hyperbola $(d_1+1)(d_2+1)\ge1$. The hyperbola simply hasn't any "bottom left corner" $(d_1',d_2')$ that is entrywise less than or equal to all $(d_1,d_2)$ in the feasible region.