Let matrix $M \in \mathbb{N}^{5 \times 5}$ be symmetric with non-negative integer entries and zeros on the main diagonal and having the property that the row sums are equal to $2r$ for some $r \geq 2$. I want to prove that $M$ can be written as a non-negative integral linear combination of $5 \times 5$ symmetric matrices having non-negative integer entries with zero entries on the main diagonal and having the property that the row sums are equal to $2$. Is there way to prove this?
I tried with some simple examples and it seems to be correct.
IDEA:
The row sums of $M$ are even, so there is either 0 or 2 or 4 odd numbers, and the diagonal entries are all zeros.
So if you have even entries, for example if you have that in $M$ the entries $m_{1,5}=m_{5,1}= 8$ then you will have in your linear combination $4$ multiplied by a matrix having all its entries on these rows are $0$ except $a_{1,5}=a_{5,1}=2$, and so on ...
Also if there is $2$ odd entries, for example $m_{1,5}=m_{5,1}=5$ and $m_{1,4}=m_{4,1}=7$, then in your linear combination you'll have $2$ multiplied by a matrix having $a_{1,5}=a_{5,1}=2$ and all other entries on these rows are zeros, and $3$ multiplied by a matrix having $b_{1,4}=b_{4,1}=2$ and all other entries on these rows are zeros, and a matrix having $c_{1,4}=c_{4,1}=c_{1,5}=c_{5,1}=1$ and all other entries on these rows are zeros, and so on...
I hope you can reach a proof from this hint and I am sorry because I am not able to write the whole proof now.