Suppose that $(V,\mathcal{B}$) is a symmetric block design of type $2-(v,k,\lambda)$. Pick an arbitrary block $B \in \mathcal{B}$. Let $B_1,...,B_{v-1}$ be a list of the remaining blocks and let $n_1,...,n_{v-1}$ be respectively the number of elements that $B$ has in common with these blocks. Show that $$n_1+...+n_{v-1} = (v-1)\lambda$$
I'm quite confused as to where to start this problem. I know that for a symmetric block design, $b=v$, so we know that the sum is equal to $(b-1)\lambda$, which essentially means that the each intersection has $\lambda$ elements. I'm unsure as to why that's true, or how to go about proving it. Any hints?
I would interpret the left hand side of the equation as counting all pairs $(B_i, p)$ such that $p\in B_i$ and $p\in B$. The left hand side of the equation does this by considering all blocks $B_i$, besides $B$, and counting their intersections with $B$. Another way to count these pairs is to instead consider all points $p\in B$, and then count how many blocks besides $B$ contain $p$. If you do that, and recall the few equalities associated with block designs and symmetric block designs in particular, you should get your answer.