When creating the taylor polynom for a $C^3$-function around a certain point i get the formula $f(z+h)=f(h)+hf'(z)+\frac{h^2}{2}f''(z) + \frac{h^3}{6}f'''(z) + R$
Now lets say I create the polynom around $f(z-h)$. The essential question for me is now: Can $R$ be assumed to be the some or do I have to consider $R_1$ and $R_2$? The reason beeing im trying to calculate the error $|f'(z) - \frac{f(z+h) - f(z-h)}{2h}|$ and estimating it by $|f'(z) - \frac{f(z+h) - f(z-h)}{2h}| \leq L\cdot h^2$. If I assume $R_1 = R_2$ I can say that $L = \frac{|f'''(z)|}{6}$.
I believe $R_1\neq R_2$ since $R_1 = \frac{h^4}{4!}f^{''''}(\xi_1)$ and $R_1 = \frac{h^4}{4!}f^{''''}(\xi_2)$ for $\xi_1\in(z,z+h)$, $\xi_2\in(z-h,z)$.
But there is a silver lining because:
$|\frac{R_1-R_2}{2h}|=\frac{h^3}{2\times 4!}|(f^{''''}(\xi_1)-f^{''''}(\xi_2))|\leq \frac{2h^3}{2\times4!}\sup_{\xi \in (z-h,z+h)}|f^{''''}(\xi)|$
If we take the lower order, then:
$R_1 = \frac{h^3}{3!}f^{''''}(\xi_1)$, but $R_2 = -\frac{h^3}{3!}f^{''''}(\xi_2)$
so then $|\frac{R_1-R_2}{2h}|=\frac{2h^3}{12}|f^{'''}(\xi_1)+f^{'''}(\xi_2)|\leq\frac{h^3}{3}\sup_{\xi \in (z-h,z+h)}|f^{'''}(\xi)|=Lh^3$
To conclude:
$f(z+h)=f(z)+hf'(z)+h^2f''(z)+R_1$, $f(z-h)=f(z)-hf'(z)+h^2f''(z)-R_1$,
Thus: $|f'(z)-\frac{f(z+h)-f(z-h)}{2h}|=|f'(z)-\frac{(f(z)-f(z))+2hf'(z)+h^2(f''(z)-f''(z))+R_1+R_2}{2h}|$
$=|f'(z)-f'(z)+\frac{R_1+R_2}{2h}|=|\frac{R_1+R_2}{2h}|\leq\frac{h^3}{3}\sup_{\xi \in (z-h,z+h)}|f^{'''}(\xi)|=Lh^3$.
Which is your desired bound.