I have found a conjecture that there is no triangle whose sides, medians, altitudes and area are all rational. I figure that someone must have already found such a triangle if one existed and yet I saw this conjecture but haven't come across any proof or hints. Is this still an open question? I feel that maybe it can't be proven - is this a question that can't be proven? But how would we show it's logically independent of the standard assumptions in mathematics?
The source where i saw this conjecture is:-https://www.ics.uci.edu/~eppstein/junkyard/open.html
According to this, it was open when Unsolved Problems in Number Theory was published, which was probably in the eighties, although I can't find the publication date for the life of me. Two rational medians, rational sides, and rational area is possible according to this source. Your problem though in fact was still open in 2004 for the third edition of Unsolved Problems in Number Theory by Guy. It is problem D21 if you can get a copy.
Here are the references listed at the end of the section for it.
I'm sorry I can't answer your other questions very well, I'm not a logician. However, as I understand it you would have to construct two systems (that are consistent assuming the usual axioms are) in which the usual axioms are satisfied, one in which it is possible to prove this conjecture, and one in which the conjecture is impossible. Anyone with better knowledge please correct me if I'm wrong.