So I have to find:
$$\mathrm{grad}f = \frac{1}{\mathrm{cosh^3}(kr)}$$
where $$r = \sqrt{x^2+y^2+z^2}$$
the main problem is that I got really strange components, like for $x$:
$$-\frac{3k\mathrm{tanh}(kr)\mathrm{sech^3}(kr)}{r}$$
is there posibility that I am right with calculus?
Simply using the chain rule $\nabla f(g(\vec r))=f'(g(\vec r))\nabla g(\vec r)$ yields
$$\nabla \left(\frac{1}{\cosh^3(kr)}\right)=-3\frac{k\sinh(kr)}{\cosh^4(kr)}\nabla (r)=-3\vec r\frac{k\sinh(kr)}{r\cosh^4(kr)}$$