This is really motivated by the soft question at the end, but let me begin with something more circumscribed:
Let $(X,\mathcal{B})$ be a measurable space and let $T:X\circlearrowleft$ be a self-map measurable with respect to $\mathcal{B}$. Let $\mu$ and $\nu$ be $T$-invariant finite measures such that $\nu \ll \mu$. Let $f\in L^1(X,\mu)$ be the Radon-Nikodym derivative $d\nu/d\mu$. I have two questions:
(1) Is $f$ a $T$-invariant element of $L^1(X,\mu)$, in the sense that $\int_Efd\mu = \int_E f\circ T d\mu$ for all $E\in\mathcal{B}$?
(2) If the answer is yes, is it possible to prove this without recourse to the Birkhoff Ergodic Theorem or an equivalent? If the answer is no, what is an example?
Motivation, thoughts, and the soft question: I am asking because on the one hand, it seems to me on general grounds that the fact that $f$ is defined uniquely in terms of the $T$-invariant measures $\nu$ and $\mu$ ought to force it to be $T$-invariant. (Where could the ability to change with $T$ come from, if not from $\mu$ or $\nu$?) On the other hand, when I apply the definitions directly, so far I have only been able to demonstrate the equality
$$ \int_E fd\mu = \int_E f\circ Td\mu$$
for sets $E$ in the pullback $\sigma$-algebra $T^{-1}\mathcal{B}$. For example, we have $$\int_{T^{-1}E}fd\mu = \nu(T^{-1}E) = \nu(E)=\int_E fd\mu = \int_EfdT_*\mu = \int_{T^{-1}E} f\circ Td\mu$$ verifying the equality for sets of the form $T^{-1}E$. Maybe I'm just not being clever enough, but every time I've played with it so far, this is how it comes out. Thus if $T$ is invertible, I have the desired equality, but if not, then I am not sure.
Meanwhile, if we make the additional assumption that $\mu,\nu$ are probability measures and that $\mu$ is ergodic, then using the Birkhoff Ergodic Theorem I can prove that $\nu = \mu$, which of course implies that $f=1$. After some more work this implies that distinct ergodic measures are mutually singular.
My soft question, which is really what the title is about, is, does this result in some essential way "come from" the Birkhoff Ergodic Theorem? If the answer above to (1) is yes, and it is possible to prove it without the BET, then this could in turn be used to prove that if $\mu,\nu$ are probability measures with $\mu$ ergodic, then $\nu=\mu$, and then this would imply that distinct ergodic measures are mutually singular without needing the BET. But my experience playing around so far makes it seem as though somehow without the BET, the definitions themselves are "not enough power." Is there anything to this? If so, what do I really mean? What aspect of the situation that the BET illuminates is needed for this result?
Thanks in advance for your thoughts.
A Blumenthal has already given a neat answer, but there is a more elementary argument for the invariance of $f$ that requires neither the ergodic theorem nor the backward martingale convergence theorem. This is shown in Peter Walters book (Theorem 6.10).
First, note that for every measurable $E$, \begin{align*} \mu(T^{-1}E\setminus E) &= \mu(T^{-1}E)-\mu(T^{-1}E\cap E) \\ &= \mu(E) - \mu(T^{-1}E\cap E) \\ &= \mu(E\setminus T^{-1}E) \;. \end{align*} This is true for every invariant measure, in particular, \begin{align*} \nu(T^{-1}E\setminus E) &= \nu(E\setminus T^{-1}E) \;. \end{align*} for every measurable $E$.
Now, for $r>0$, let $E_r:=\{x: f(x)<r\}$. Then, \begin{align*} \int_{T^{-1}E_r\setminus E_r}f\,\mathrm{d}\mu &= \int_{E_r\setminus T^{-1}E_r}f\,\mathrm{d}\mu \;. \end{align*} Observe that $f\geq r$ on $T^{-1}E_r\setminus E_r$ and $f<r$ on $E_r\setminus T^{-1}E_r$. Therefore, $\mu(T^{-1}E_r\setminus E_r)=\mu(E_r\setminus T^{-1}E_r)=0$.
In words, this says that for every $r>0$, the set of points $x$ such that either $f(Tx)<r\leq f(x)$ or $f(x)<r\leq f(Tx)$ has $\mu$-measure $0$, and this means $f(x)$ and $f(Tx)$ must agree almost everywhere.
(More precisely, \begin{align*} \mu\left(\{x: f(Tx)<f(x)\}\right) &\leq \sum_{r\in\mathbb{Q}^+} \mu(T^{-1}E_r\setminus E_r) = 0 \end{align*} and similarly, $\mu\left(\{x: f(x)<f(Tx)\}\right)=0$. Hence, $f\circ T=f$ $\mu$-almost everywhere.)