In triangle $ABC$, $D$ is the point on $BC$ such that $AD$ bisects $∡CAB$ , and $M$ is the midpoint of $BC$. $E$ is the point on the extension of $BA$ such that $ME$ is parallel to $AD$ and intersects $AC$ at $F$.
Prove that $$|BE|=|CF|=\frac{|AB|+|AC|}{2}$$
I got the following equations : $v(BA)+v(AC)=v(BC)$ ---> equation 1
$v(BM)=v(BE)+v(EM)$ ---> equation 2
$v(CF)=v(CM)+v(MF)$ ---> equation 3
$v() =>$ notation for vector for e.g. $v(AB) => \vec{AB}$
I am not able to proceed further for the proof, please advice.

I'll help you prove @String's claim:
Firstly, notice that by angle chasing we have $|AE|=|AF|$ - use the fact that we have angle bisector and parallel lines.
Then use Menelaus' Theorem for $\triangle ABC$ and the line $EFM$:
$$\frac{|CF|}{|AF|}\frac{|AE|}{|EB|}\frac{|BM|}{|MC|}=1$$
Use that $M$ is the midpoint and the above to get that $|CF|=|BE|$
Now you have $|CF|=|BE|=|BA|+|AE|=|BA|+|AF|=|BA|+|AC|-|CF|$ which implies
$$|CF|=\frac{|BA|+|AC|}{2}$$
Note that for the last part we used the positioning of the points which requires a bit more reasoning since there is more than one possibility