I have been trying to get an intuitive grasp of the matrix-vector multiplication operation.
So far, I've consumed both 3Blue1Brown's videos on this topic as well as studied Gilbert Strang's textbook chapters relevant to matrix-vector multiplication. Both seem to offer two very different ways of intuitively looking at the product.
3Blue1Brown interprets the matrix as transforming the vector by performing operations such as "stretching", "shrinking", "rotating", etc. In other words, the thing being transformed is the vector.
Strang, on the other hand, interprets this operation as the columns of the matrix being added together with the elements of the vector acting as coefficients. In other words, the things being transformed are the columns of the matrix.
I see these as two very different interpretations of the same thing. Is there some way to reconcile these two things? Am I missing something painfully obvious?

Let's talk about $(\color{red}{M}\color{blue}{v})_i=\sum_j\color{red}{M}_{ij}\color{blue}{v}_j$. 3Blue1Brown thinks of this as something the red does to the blue; Gilbert Strang things of it as something the blue does to the red. This pluralism is no more mysterious than wondering whether $\color{red}{3}\times\color{blue}{2}$ is tripling 2 or doubling 3.