I'm working my way through the book Introduction to Hilbert Spaces with Applications and trying to follow the early example (1.4.6) showing that $\ell ^2$ spaces are complete (Cauchy sequences $(a_n) \in \ell ^2$ have their converge in $\ell ^2$). At this point only basic results of normed vector spaces are shown, neither the Dominated nor Monotone convergence theorems are presented.
They start by declaring the Cauchy sequence $(a_n) \in \ell ^2$ with elements $a_n = (\alpha_{n1}, \alpha_{n2}, ...)$. By the definition of Cauchy sequences and the $\ell ^2$ norm they get that there exists $N$ such that
\begin{equation} \sum_{k=1}^{\infty}|\alpha_{mk} - \alpha_{nk}|^2 < \epsilon^2 \tag{1} \end{equation}
for $m, n > N$. They conclude that this means that for each $k$, $|\alpha_{mk} - \alpha_{nk}| < \epsilon$ so $(\alpha_{nk})$ is a Cauchy sequence in $\mathbb{C}$ and therefore converges to a limit $\alpha_k \in \mathbb{C}$. Now to the part that is unclear to me. They state that from (1), by letting $m \rightarrow \infty$, we get
\begin{equation} \sum_{k=1}^{\infty}|\alpha_{k} - \alpha_{nk}|^2 \le \epsilon^2 \tag{2} \end{equation}
for $n > N$, without mentioning how. It seems like this limit is supposed to be obvious, but the only methods I can figure out or find rely on being able to state that ($\stackrel{!}{=}$)
\begin{equation} \lim_{m \rightarrow \infty} \sum_{k=1}^{\infty}|\alpha_{k} - \alpha_{nk}|^2 = \lim_{m \rightarrow \infty} \lim_{K \rightarrow \infty} \sum_{k=1}^{K}|\alpha_{k} - \alpha_{nk}|^2 \stackrel{!}{=} \lim_{K \rightarrow \infty} \sum_{k=1}^{K}\lim_{m \rightarrow \infty}|\alpha_{mk} - \alpha_{nk}|^2 = \sum_{k=1}^{\infty}|\alpha_{k} - \alpha_{nk}|^2 \end{equation}
using later results like the aforementioned convergence theorems. Is there some better method I'm completely missing here?
Do it in a few steps. Take any constant $n>N$ and $K\in\mathbb{N}$. For all $m>N$ we have:
$$ \sum_{k=1}^K |\alpha_{mk}-\alpha_{nk}|^2\leq\epsilon^2 $$
Now, this is a finite sum so there is no problem to use arithmetic of limits. By taking $m\to\infty$ we get the inequality $\sum_{k=1}^K |\alpha_k-\alpha_{nk}|^2\leq\epsilon^2$. And since this is true for all $K\in\mathbb{N}$ (since $K$ was an arbitrary natural number), by taking $K\to\infty$ we get $\sum_{k=1}^\infty |\alpha_k-\alpha_{nk}|^2\leq\epsilon^2$.
By the way, it is important to write non strict inequalities. After all, strict inequalities are not always preserved when taking a limit.