I have read several introductory notes on limits of functions, and in all of them they introduce the notion of a limit of a function $f(x)$ by discussing what happens to the value of $f$ as $x$ approaches a given value, say $x=a$. In doing so they use phrases of the form "if $\lim_{x\rightarrow a}f(x)=L$ exists, this means that given a value of $x$ sufficiently close to $a$ (but not equal to $a$), we can make $f(x)$ arbitrarily close to $L$". What confuses me about this is, if one has the result $\lim_{x\rightarrow a}f(x)=L$, does this mean that one should take "arbitrarily close" as "equal to"? Is it that since arbitrarily close values of $x$ to $x=a$ lead to the value of $f$ being arbitrarily close to its value at $x=a$, we can imply that the limiting value of $f$ is exactly equal to $L$!?
The primary reason I ask is because the derivative is defined as the limit of a diffence quotient that itself is undefined at the point we are approaching, so how is one to interpret the limiting value of this difference quotient $$\lim_{\Delta x\rightarrow 0}\frac{f(x+\Delta x)-f(x)}{\Delta x}=f'(x)$$ how can one state that its limiting value is exactly equal to the slope of the tangent line to the point $x$, equivalently the instantaneous rate of change in the value of the function $f$ with respect $x$ at the point $x$. How can we be certain that this is true?
I feel like I might have missing something important here. If anyone can enlighten me it would be much appreciated!
Let's see if we can make the idea of "arbitrarily close" precise and the best way to do that is by using open intervals on R.
To really understand this, you have to understand the precise definition of a function on it's domain. Consider the precise definition of a function: Let A and B be nonempty sets.A function F from A into B is a nonempty subset of the Cartesian product A x B = { (a,b) ={a,{a,b}| a is in A and b is in B} where no 2 different ordered pairs have the same first member. The set of all first members of the function is called the domain of the function and the set of all second members of the function is called the range of f. Therefore, a function is not defined at a point a in A iff there is no such ordered pair in f where f(a) = z where z is in the range of f.
A limit of a real valued function,however, is defined by open interval (a,b) in the real line R of the domain and a corresponding open subset of the range (c,d)= (f(a).d) such that if |a-b| < r where r is some positive real number, then there exists some positive real number r' such that |c -d|< r'. This is certainly true even if d is not in the range of f.
If you understand this,then applying this to the limit of the difference quotient at a specific point x in R is pretty straightforward even without the geometric definition of the derivative. If a line L is tangent to the given point x, then it's not hard to see that all the points "near" x on L lie within some open ball in the plane or some open interval of the real line.