I am trying to solidify my understanding of the muscial isomorphisms in the context of vector spaces. I believe I understand the definitions but would appreciate corrections if my understanding is not correct. Also, as I have had some difficulty tracking down related material, I would welcome any suggested references that would expand upon this material and related results.
So, let $V$ be a finite-dimensional vector space over $\mathbb{R}$ with inner product $\langle \cdot, \cdot \rangle$ and let $V^*$ denote its dual. For each element $v \in V$, one can define a mapping $V \rightarrow V^*$ by $v \mapsto \langle \cdot, v \rangle$. By the Riesz representation theorem this mapping actually determines an isomorphism that allows us to identify each element in $V$ with a unique functional in $V^*$ The "flat" operator $\flat$ is defined by by $v^{\flat}(u) = \langle u , v \rangle$ for all $u \in V$ and is thus just the Riesz isomorphism in the direction $V \rightarrow V^*$ as defined above. On the other hand, given a linear functional $f_v \in V^*$, we know that there exists a unique $v \in V$ such that $f_v(u) = \langle u , v \rangle$ for all $u \in V$ and the "sharp" operator $\sharp$ is defined by by $f_v^{\sharp} = v$ and this represents the other direction of the Riesz isomorphism.
Is this understanding correct? Can anyone provide a reference to some examples/exercises that would explore these operators in a concrete way? The Wikipedia page on the topic isn't of much help.
Update: I am adding a bounty to this question in hopes that someone will be able to provide examples/exercises (or references to such) that illustrate the use of the musical isomorphisms in the context of vector spaces.
"Musical isomorphism" sounds like "catastrophe theory". But, irony aside, what you think and write is absolutely correct. (A minor point: You are not "given a functional $f_v\in V^*$", but you are given a functional $f\in V^*$, and the isomorphism in question guarantees you the existence of a unique $v\in V$ such that $f(u)=\langle v,u\rangle$ for all $u\in V$.)
Now it seems that you cannot make the connection with the Wikipedia page about the "musical isomorphism". This has to do with the way a scalar product has to be encoded when the given basis is not orthonormal to start with. In this respect one can say the following:
If $V$ is a real vector space provided with a scalar product $\langle\cdot,\cdot\rangle$, and if $(e_1,\ldots,e_n)$ is an arbitrary (i.e. not necessarily orthonormal) basis of $V$ then (a) any vector $x\in V$ is represented by a $(n\times 1)$ column vector $x\in{\mathbb R}^n$ such that $x=\sum_{k=1}^n x_k\> e_k$, and (b) there is a matrix $G=[g_{ik}]$ such that $$\langle x,y\rangle \ =\ x'\> G \> y\qquad \forall x,\forall y\ .$$ This implies that the functional $v^\flat$ appears in the form $$v^\flat(u)=\langle v,u\rangle=v'\> G\> u\ .$$ Putting $\sum_{i=1}^n v_i g_{ik}=: \bar v_k$ one therefore has $$v^\flat(u)=\sum_{k=1}^n \bar v_k\> u_k\ ,$$ so that one can interpret the coefficients $\bar v_k$ as "coordinates“ of the functional $v^\flat$.
Similar considerations apply to the operator $\sharp$, and going through the motions one finds that the inverse of the matrix $G$ comes into play. The details are as follows: A given functional $f\in V^*$ appears "coordinatewise" as $$f(u)\ =\ \sum_{k=1}^n f_k u_k\quad (u\in V)\ ,$$ where the coefficient vector $f=(f_1,\ldots, f_n)$ is some real $n$-tuple. Now you want to represent $f$ by means of the scalar product as a vector $f^\sharp\in V$ in the following way: We should have $$f(u)=\langle f^\sharp, u\rangle\qquad \forall u\in V\ ,$$ which in terms of matrix products means $$f'\> u\ =\ (f^\sharp)'\> G\>u\qquad\forall u\in{\mathbb R}^n$$ or $$f^\sharp =G^{-1}\>f\ $$ (note that the matrix $G$ is symmetric). This formula gives you the coordinates of $f^\sharp$ with respect to the basis $(e_1,\ldots,e_n)$.
In old books you read about "covariant" and "contravariant" coordinates of one and the same vector (or functional) $v$ resp. $f$.