I recently tried to come up with my own proof of the following: Let $p$ and $q$ be primes with $p<q$. Prove that a non-abelian group $G$ of order $pq$ has a nonnormal subgroup of index $q$. I found the following proof from this link: Prove that a non-abelian group of order $pq$ ($p<q$) has a nonnormal subgroup of index $q$
Let $K$ be a subgroup of order $q$ of $G$. $K$ exists by Cauchy's Theorem. Then index$[G:K]=p$, the smallest prime dividing $|G|$. Now let $G$ act on the left cosets of $K$ by left-multiplication. The kernel of this action $C=core_G(K)$ is normal in $G$ and $G/C$ injects homomorphically in $S_p$. So $|G/C| \mid p!$. Since $p \lt q$, it follows that $|G/C|=p$, whence $K=C$, and $K$ is normal.
Now $G$ has a subgroup $H$ of order $p$. If it is normal, then we would have $H \cap K =1$ and $|HK|=|H||K|/|H\cap K|=pq$, so $G=HK$, and $G \cong H \times K \cong C_{pq}$, and $G$ would be abelian. So $H$ must be non-normal.
I understand that Cauchy's Theorem implies the existence of $K$, a group of prime order. Since the index $[G:K]=p$ is the smallest prime dividing $|G|$, $K$ is normal in $G$ (Dummit and Foote, page 120). But what's the purpose of the remaining paragraph when it's apparent that $core_G(K)=\bigcap_{g\in G} gKg^{-1}=K$ since $K$ is normal?
And I know that the 1st. isomorphism thm. implies that $|G/core_G(K)|\mid p!$. But I don't think the deduction 'Since $p \lt q$, it follows that $|G/core_G(K)|=p$' is valid: $|G/core_G(K)|=p$ is immediately followed by the fact that $core_G(K)=K$. However, the '$p<q$' seems to be crucial in the proof of the proposition. Just consider $Sym(3)$. It has order $6$, and has $3$ nonnormal subgroups of index $3$, but the only subgroup of index $2$ is normal. So how to appropriately employ the assumption '$p<q$' in the proof?
Another question regarding the second paragraph: 'Now $G$ has a subgroup $H$ of order $p$. If it is normal, then we would have $H \cap K =1$'. Why the 'If it is normal' if $H$ and $K$ have coprime orders implying that $H \cap K =1$?
First of all about your last question: $H$ and $K$ being normal has nothing to do with $H \cap K= \{\ e \}\ $. The order $H$ and $K$ being co-prime plays the role here. $H$ and $K$ being normal plays the part where you write $HK \cong H \times K$. If both are not normal you won't get a direct product then. Here $K$ which is surely normal of order q and $H$ if normal (of order p) gives you $G \cong C_{p} \times C_{q}$. But if $H$ is not normal, you will get non-abelian group which are actually semi-direct products of $C_{p}$ and $C_{q}$.
Now about the other question about how to effectively use $p<q$ in the proof. See if you use the Sylow theorems then it's quiet evident. But if you don't want to use that there is another easy way to see this.
Use the fact that if there is a unique subgroup of order n in a group, then that subgroup has to be normal.(You should know why?).
Let $K_{1}$ and $K_{2}$ be two distinct subgroups of order q. Then $|K_{1}K_{2}|=q^{2}$(why?). But $q^{2} > pq$ since $p<q$. Hence a contradiction!!
So, You have a unique subgroup of order q and hence normal.