I know that one solution is to find the cross product of $\vec{A}$ and $\vec{B}$ and then find the unit vector in that direction.
But why can't we do it in this way:
Let the vector $\vec{U} = x\hat{i}+ y\hat{j}+ z\hat{k}$ be perpendicular to the plane containing $\vec{A}$ and $\vec{B}$. Then $\vec{U}$ must be perpendicular to both $\vec{A}$ and $\vec{B}$ and also to the vector $\vec{A}+\vec{B}$. Therefore:
$$\vec{A}\cdot\vec{U}=0$$ $$\vec{B}\cdot\vec{U}=0$$ $$\big(\vec{A}+\vec{B}\big)\cdot \vec{U}=0$$ So I have three equations with three unknowns but when I solve it I don't get the answer.
We obtain: $$4x-y-z=0$$ and $$4x+y-4z=0,$$ which after summing gives $$8x=5z.$$ We see that $x=5t,$ $z=8t$ and $y=12t,$ which gives $$\frac{1}{\sqrt{5^2t^2+12^2t^2+8^2t^2}}(5ti+12tj+8tk)$$ or $$\pm\frac{1}{\sqrt{233}}(5i+12j+8k)$$