Let $x, y\in \Bbb R^d$, I would like to show that
$$\lim\limits_{R\to\infty}\frac{|B(x,R)\setminus B(y, R)|}{|B(x, R)|}=0.$$
My feeling is that we must also show that
$$|B(x,R)\setminus B(y, R)|\simeq R^{d-1}, \quad R>>1.$$
Is this equivalence true? if yes, how to prove it?
One has $$\frac{|B(x,R)\setminus B(y, R)|}{|B(x, R)|}=\frac{|B(x,R)\setminus (B(x,R)\cap B(y, R))|}{|B(x, R)|}.$$ Therefore, $$\lim\limits_{R\to\infty}\frac{|B(x,R)\setminus B(y, R)|}{|B(x, R)|}=1-\lim\limits_{R\to\infty}\frac{|B(x,R)\cap B(y, R)|}{|B(x, R)|}.$$ But, for all $\varepsilon>0$, there exists $M>0$ such that for all $R\geq M$, $$B(\frac{x+y}{2},R-\varepsilon)\subset B(x,R)\cap B(y, R).$$ Thus, for all $\varepsilon>0$, there exists $M>0$ such that for all $R\geq M$, $$\left|1-\frac{|B(x,R)\cap B(y, R)|}{|B(x, R)|}\right|=1-\frac{|B(x,R)\cap B(y, R)|}{|B(x, R)|}\leq 1-\frac{(R-\varepsilon)^d}{R^d}.$$ Hence, $$\lim\limits_{R\to\infty}\frac{|B(x,R)\cap B(y, R)|}{|B(x, R)|}=1$$ and $$\lim\limits_{R\to\infty}\frac{|B(x,R)\setminus B(y, R)|}{|B(x, R)|}=0.$$