What are permutable equivalence relations, and what are they used for? What is the idea behind them? Could someone give me an example and a counterexample for finite sets?
I have encountered the notion in the book Lattice Theory by Birkhoff, Chapter IV, Paragraph 9. Theorem 13 says (paraphrasing a little):
Two permutable equivalence relations on the same set form a modular pair in the dual of the partition lattice.
The problem is that, according to the index at the end of the book, the notion of permutable relations appears first on that very page.
EDIT: I believe the terminology is as follows: two congruences $\sigma$ and $\rho$ on an algebra $A$ are permutable if $\sigma\rho=\rho\sigma$, that is, if we have $$\{(a, b): \exists c(a\rho c, c\sigma b)\}=\{(a, b): \exists c'(a\sigma c', c'\rho b)\}.$$ See e.g. https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Congruence-permutable_algebra.
Let me give a somewhat degenerate example, that I hope shows how permutability can be a useful property:
Let's say I'm working with the congruence lattice $L$ of a group $G$. Then I claim every pair of elements of $L$ is permutable! That is, groups are congruence permutable. Why? Well, suppose $a\sigma\rho b$ - that is, there is some $c$ such that $a\sigma c\rho b$. Well, since congruence relations on groups correspond to normal subgroups, this means that
and
where $X, Y$ are the normal subgroups corresponding to $\sigma$ and $\rho$. So we have $axy=b$. But then $ayy^{-1}xy=b$, that is, $ay(y^{-1}xy)=b$. Since $X$ is normal, we have $y^{-1}xy\in X$ - call this $x'$. So $ayx'=b$. But this means $a\rho\sigma b$!
OK, so what? Well, it's now easy to check that $\rho\sigma$ is a congruence on $G$, and in fact is the least upper bound of $\rho$ and $\sigma$; and from this we can easily show (a good exercise) that $L$ is modular (this is Dedekind's theorem).
So in general, I would say that instances of permutability in a congruence lattice correspond to places in the lattice which are "locally modular", in some informal sense.