$ \newcommand{ifelse}[3]{ \left( \begin{cases} #1\text{ if }#2 \\ #3\text{ otherwise} \end{cases} \right) } $ A recent Numberphile video on 1+2+3+... has made this question ("Why?") popular again, as can be seen in the many related and duplicate questions.
But after puzzling a bit with this, it seems that the rules that they use in that video are inconsistent...
As far as I can see, they assume the existence of a sequence summation operator $\sum_n a_n$ which is just standard summation for convergent series, and which additionally obeys the following rules: \begin{align} & \sum_n (a\text{ with all zeroes removed})_n = \sum_n a_n \tag{0} \\ & \sum_n (c \times a_n + b_n) = c \times \sum_n a_n + \sum_n b_n \tag{1} \\ \end{align}
However, if I am not mistaken, these rules quickly lead to an inconsistency: \begin{alignat}{2} 0 &= \sum_n 1 - \sum_n 1 &&\text{(arithmetic, assuming $\;\sum_n 1\;$ exists)} \\ &= \sum_n 1 - \sum_n \ifelse{0}{n=0}{1} \quad &&\text{(inserting a 0 does not change the sum)} \\ &= \sum_n \ifelse{1}{n=0}{0} &&\text{(from (1))} \\ &= 1 &&\text{(convergent series)} \\ \end{alignat} Therefore my question is: Is there a set of consistent rules for a summation operator that allows us to compute $\;\sum_n n\;$ ("$1 + 2 + 3 + \dots$")? Does that work on all sequences, or do we have to exclude some (like perhaps $\;\sum_n 1\;$), and if so, which exactly?
If we interpret the entire enterprise as computing $\zeta(-1)$, then the first rule comes from manipulating Dirichlet series, but with $n^{-s}$ written as just "$n$". So you may object to writing $$-4\times(1+2+3+4+\cdots) = 0-2(2)+0-2(4)+\cdots,$$ but you probably agree that for appropriate values of $s$, we have $$-\frac{2}{2^s}\times\left(\frac{1}{1^s}+\frac{1}{2^s}+\frac{1}{3^s}+\frac{1}{4^s}+\cdots\right) = \frac{0}{1^s}-\frac{2}{2^s}+\frac{0}{3^s}-\frac{2}{4^s}+\cdots$$ and so $$\left(1-\frac{2}{2^s}\right)\times\left(\frac{1}{1^s}+\frac{1}{2^s}+\frac{1}{3^s}+\frac{1}{4^s}+\cdots\right)=\frac{1}{1^s}-\frac{1}{2^s}+\frac{1}{3^s}-\frac{1}{4^s}+\cdots.$$ Since this identity of convergent series holds for $\Re(s)>1$, we may choose to interpret both series by analytic continuation for other values of $s$, and the identity will still hold, practically by fiat. Now, unlike the series on the left, the alternating series on the right is Abel summable everywhere, which justifies all the remaining manipulations as operating on a power series instead, including the insertion of a single $0$.
(By contrast, inserting a single $0$ doesn't have the expected effect on a Dirichlet series; it doesn't just "move every term to the right". That's why you were able to get nonsense from $\sum 1$.)
To summarize, every step of the video comes from a valid operation on Dirichlet series or power series, but with the variable suppressed to make it look like an ordinary numerical series. Whether a given series converges or is Abel summable for some given range of parameters tells you which rules you may consistently apply.