I have recently begun to see examples of people and literature saying statements such as $f(x) \in \Theta(...)$ but what does it mean for one function to be inside or a member of another?
(i.e. I understand that's probably not what it means in this case, but what is this alternative meaning used for functions?)
Unfortunately, there are massive inconsistencies with how big O (and related) notation is used, leading to some confusion.
In this case $\Theta(g(x))$ is the set of functions that are asymptotically bounded below and above by $g$.
Therefore, if $f\in \Theta(g)$ that means that $f$ is in that set, i.e. it is bounded below and above by $g$.