According to Jech's set theory, a partial ordering (of $P$) is:
A binary relation $<\subseteq P\times P$ where we have:
- $\forall p\in P[(p,p)\notin <]$ (which we may say as: $\forall p\in P[p\not<p$])
- $\forall p,q,r\in P[p<q\wedge q<r\implies p<r]$
It then goes on to say if $<$ is a partial order then we can define a relation $\le$ where $p\le q\iff[p=q\vee p<q]$ and that is a partial order.
However this violates point 1 of the definition of partial orders.
It notes that
"$<$ is sometimes called a strict order"
I have a theorem that shows there is a 1:1 correspondance between strict and "non-strict" orderings, so perhaps this is more of a "we may as well call it a partial, for it is induced by and induces exactly one partial order"
Usually, the term partial order, when unqualified by any other adjectives, refers to a reflexive, antisymmetric and transitive relation (i.e. the $\le$ you mention). A strict (partial) order is an irreflexive, transitive relation (i.e. the $<$ you mention).
As you mention, given a set $X$, there is a correspondence between partial orders and strict partial orders on $X$;
So really, referring to strict partial orders simply as "partial orders" is a (forgivable) abuse of notation.