What is a transversal intersection? Can it be explained without tangent spaces and tangent bundles?
Background: Transversal intersection was used to explain If the interior of two convex manifolds intersect, what is the dimension of their intersection?. I would like to know what transversal intersection is, but the resources use the concepts of tangent bundles and tangent spaces to explain it.
Is there a simple explanation of transversal intersection that doesn't use tangent bundles and tangent spaces? Perhaps explaining it in a limited context (e.g. convex sets in $\mathbb R^n$). Or, if not: Is there a simple explanation of enough background to understand transversal intersection?
(If so, I expect this Q&A may be very useful for others in the future as well.)
Roughly speaking, two spaces (manifolds) $X,Y \subseteq \mathbb R^n$ intersect transversally if $X \cap Y \neq \emptyset$ and, at any intersection point, the union of all possible lines tangent to either $X$ or $Y$, generates $\mathbb R^n$.
To make some examples let's consider first $\mathbb R^2$ as ambient space, then any pair of incident lines intersect transversally as two independent vectors are enough to generate $\mathbb{R}^2$.
A non-transverse intersection can be obtained by considering a quadric in $\mathbb R^2$ and the tangent line at some point of its: for example take $y - x^2 = 0$ and $y = 0$. These varieties (and manifolds) intersect in $(0,0)$, but here the tangent line to the parabola is precisely $y = 0$, which of course does not generate the plane.
Lastly, as open subsets of $\mathbb R^2$ are 2-dimensional manifolds, they contain all possible tangent directions at any point of theirs, so they intersect transversally any other manifold in $\mathbb R^2$.