I have come across several groups, some of which have the same number of generating elements and of the same orders. Take, for instance, $D_{2n}$ and $S_n$. I have never seen it read explicitly, but it seems to me that many groups have some number of generating elements of a given order, and then also have some additional structure on top of this, such as the requirement that $sr=r^{-1}s$ for the Dihedral group, which allows the "object" to still satisfy the group axioms but it has a restricted set of allowed elements compared with the group generated by the elements with no restriction alone. Another example coming to mind is any Abelian group, which has this additional structure on it.
Are these properties (i.e. the number of generating elements, their orders, and any additional properties/constraints) necessary and sufficient to specify a group? I am trying to think in terms of isomorphisms; I would try to show two groups are 'the same' by showing that an isomorphism exists between them. onsidering this, it certainly seems sufficient that two groups are matched with these properties. The isomorphism can then simply map the corresponding elements on to each other. But is it necessary? Or, in other words, if two groups are not exactly matched in these properties, is there no isomorphism between them? Perhaps it also makes a difference if the groups are of infinite order. Then reerring to 'the number of generating elements' and 'their orders' seems a bit suspect...
Consider two groups $G_1$ and $G_2$, each of which is generated by two elements $a$ and $b$. In $G_1$, $a$ and $b$ satisfy these relations:
In $G_2$, $a$ and $b$ satisfy these relations:
So, the two presentations are quite different. However, $G_1\simeq G_2$, because, in fact, both of them are isomorphic to $S_3$.
Here's another example. This time, I will provide two presentations of the group $\mathbb{Z}_6$: