Say I have an abstract set $X$ (could be points, functions, functors or whatever). Say I have an equivalence relation $R\in X\times X$.
What would be the category-theory way to express $X/R$, that is, the set of subsets of $X$ equivalent by $R$. Or using another formalism, $\{xR^*| x\in X\}\in{\frak P}(X)$.
Equivalences relations in category theory are used by Giraud to characterize a Grothendieck topos.
Let $C$ be a category, an equivalence relation defined on the object $X$ is an object $R$ together with a morphism $R\rightarrow X\times X$ such that for every object $Y$ in $C$, $Hom_C(Y,R)\rightarrow Hom_C(Y,X)\times Hom_C(Y,X)$ defines an equivalence relation on $Hom_C(Y,X)$.
If $X$ is a set, and $R\subset X\times X$ an equivalence relation, you can define $f,g:R\rightarrow X$ such that for $(x,y)\in R$, $f(x,y)=x$ and $g(x,y)=y$. The quotient $X/R$ is the coequalizer of $f$ and $g$.