If the real projective space $\mathbb{P}^n=\mathbb{R}^{n+1}/(x\sim \lambda x, \lambda\in\mathbb{R})$, then how does one define a real Grassmanian $G_n(\mathbb{R}^{n+k})=\{V\subset\mathbb{R}^{n+k}\mid \dim V=n\}$ as a quotient of $\mathbb{R}^{n+k}$? I saw on Wikipedia that its topology is given by the quotient topology, without specifically referring to what quotient.
I am asking because in the definition of a tautological bundle over a Grassmannian, Wikipedia says that $G_n(\mathbb{R}^{n+k})$ is given a topology such that the map $G_n(\mathbb{R}^{n+k})\to \mathrm{End}(\mathbb{R}^{n+k})$, sending an $n$-plane $V$ to the orthogonal projection map $P_V$ onto that plane, is a homeomorphism onto its image.
https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Tautological_bundle#cite_note-3
As a consequence, then the set $U_V$ containing all $n$-planes $X$ such that $P_V(X)\cong X$ by a linear isomorphism is open. Is this because it is a map onto the set of automorphisms which is open from the determinant function?
Let $Y\subset\mathbb{R}^{n(n+k)}$ be the set of linearly independent $n$-tuples of elements of $\mathbb{R}^{n+k}$. Then there is a surjection $p:Y\to G_n(\mathbb{R}^{n+k})$ sending an element of $Y$ to its span. The topology on $G_n(\mathbb{R}^{n+k})$ is the quotient topology for this map $p$ (considering $Y$ as a subspace of $\mathbb{R}^{n(n+k)}$).
In particular, $p^{-1}(U_V)$ is the set of $n$-tuples which remain linearly independent after applying $P_V$ to each of them. As you say, this is just the set on which a certain determinant does not vanish, and so is open in $Y$.