Suppose that the latent log-price of two arbitrary assets $X_{t}=\left(X_{t}^{(1)}, X_{t}^{(2)}\right)$ follows a continuous Itô process $$ \begin{aligned} d X_{t}^{(1)} &:=\mu_{t}^{(1)} d t+\sigma_{t}^{(1)} d W_{t}^{(1)} \\ d X_{t}^{(2)} &:=\mu_{t}^{(2)} d t+\sigma_{t}^{(2)} d W_{t}^{(2)} \end{aligned} $$ where $\mu_{t}^{(1)}, \mu_{t}^{(2)}, \sigma_{t}^{(1)}, \sigma_{t}^{(2)}$ are random processes, and $W_{t}^{(1)}$ and $W_{t}^{(2)}$ are standard Brownian motions, with (random) high-frequency correlation
- $d\left\langle W^{(1)}, W^{(2)}\right\rangle_{t}=\rho_{t} d t .$
- $Cov(dW^{(1)}_t,dW_t^{(2)})=\rho_tdt$
Do the two conditions represent the same thing? If not, which condition is used most, Condition 1 I suppose, right?
The bottom line is that the difference between instantaneous covariance and instantaneous covariation is that the former is a property of the joint distribution of $W^{1}$ and $W^{2}$ evaluated in $t$, while the latter is the result of calling the Law of Large Numbers on a realized joint path of $W^{1}$ and $W^{2}$. Such call is justified by the fact that the Brownian motion has no natural step size and is thus possible to consider the limit of the number of steps going to infinite.
In order to convey the difference between the two, one could write:
$$ \text{Cov}(dW_t^{1}, dW_t^{2})=\lim_{\epsilon \rightarrow 0}\int_{\mathcal{F}(t)} \{ \int_t^{t+\epsilon}[(W_{t+\epsilon}^{1}(\omega)-W_t^{1}(\omega))(W_{t+\epsilon}^{2}(\omega)-W_t^{2}(\omega))] \} d\mathbb{P}(\omega)=\rho(t)dt $$
$$ P\{ \langle W^{1}, W^{2} \rangle [T]=\int_0^T \rho(t) dt \} = 1, $$
since the Brownian motions can be arbitrarily scalable, informally we write
$$ d\langle W^{1}, W^{2} \rangle_t = dW_t^{1}dW_t^{2} = \rho(t) dt, $$
meaning that the two processes accumulate covariation at rate $\rho(t)$ per unit of time.
In other words, given the parameters of the joint distribution of $W^{1}$ and $W^{2}$, namely the covariance, or the instantaneous covariance, when the joint distribution is conditional to time, one can define the covariation and the instantaneous covariation. Basically, such is the pipeline.