Let $H\leq G$ be two groups. I'm interested in the Commensurator $$\mathrm{comm}_G(H)=\{g\in G : gHg^{-1} \cap H \text{ has finite index in both}\}.$$
Obviously, $\mathrm{comm}_G(H)\leq G$. I read on wiki, that the equality holds for any compact open group $G$. But does anyone have an easy example, where $1\ne\mathrm{comm}_G(H)\neq G$? Is this possible, since we have normal subgroup of finite index in both $H,gHg^{-1}$, if one of them already has finite index in $G$, namely $\bigcap\limits_{g\in G} gHg^{-1}$. This implies that $H,gHg^{-1}$ are both of finite index in $G$. So how do we get $1\neq\mathrm{comm}_G(H)\neq G$ for a groups $H\leq G$?
Thanks for help.
I'm no expert on the topic of Lie groups, so no example springs to mind in this context. For abstract groups, however, we can construct an example as follows: Define $G$ as the finitely presented group $$G := \langle a,b,c ~|~ cac^{-1} = b \rangle$$ and let $H := \langle a \rangle \le G$. Then $c \not\in \text{comm}_G(H)$, since $cHc^{-1} = \langle b \rangle$ and $\langle a \rangle \cap \langle b \rangle = \{1\}$.