If I'm understanding this correctly, $13$ in $\mathcal{O}_{\mathbb{Q}(\sqrt{-23})}$ is irreducible but not prime. From A & W we see that $x^2 \equiv -23 \bmod 13$ has solutions and therefore $\langle 13 \rangle$ factors as $\langle 13, x - \sqrt{-23} \rangle \langle 13, x + \sqrt{-23} \rangle$, where any $x$ that satisfies the congruence will work, e.g., $x = 4, 9, 17, 22,$ etc.
But where do ideals like $$\left\langle 13, \frac{9}{2} + \frac{\sqrt{-23}}{2}\right\rangle$$ fit into all this? Would that ideal be contained in $\langle 13, 4 - \sqrt{-23} \rangle$ or $\langle 13, 4 + \sqrt{-23} \rangle$? Or is it the other way around? Or is the same ideal as one of those? I'm getting confused.
You can tell the ideals apart by simple congruences: Let $I = (13,(9+\sqrt{-23})/2)$; then clearly $\sqrt{-23} \equiv -9 \bmod I$ and $-9 \equiv 4 \bmod 13$. Since $13 \in I$, you have $\sqrt{-23} \equiv 4 \bmod I$.Therefore $I$ divides (and so contains) $(13,4 - \sqrt{-23})$. In fact they are equal: $$ (13,4 - \sqrt{-23}) = (13, -9 - \sqrt{-23}) = (13, 9 + \sqrt{-23}) = (13,2)I = I. $$