I can understand the proof, which I could do myself:
$|s_n - s_m| = |s_n - s + s - s_m|$
$\Rightarrow |s_n - s_m| \leq |s_n - s| + |s_m - s| $
For some $\epsilon > 0, \exists\ \ N(\epsilon) \in \mathbb{N} s.t.$
$ |s_n - s_m| \leq \epsilon + \epsilon \ \ \forall \ \ m,n > N(\epsilon)$
$\therefore |s_n - s_m| \leq 2\epsilon$ where $2\epsilon \in \mathbb{R}$
The fact that the Cauchy sequence gradually closes up, i.e. the elements get closer together in obvious from the last point. $N(\epsilon)$ necessarily is a non-increasing function of $\epsilon$.
But I can't see this physically. I can think of instances in which the sequence may close up, then diverge, then close up again at infinity. What stops the sequence from coming as close as $\epsilon_1$ to the limit, then diverging, then coming back after some elements.
Of course, the Cauchy sequence does not allow this, but I don't see how this instance violates the basic definition of an existence of a limit. The basic definition simply requires that $\forall \epsilon >0\exists N \in \mathbb{N}\ s.t. |s_n -s| < \epsilon$. There is no rule on the $\epsilon$ increasing with $N$.

Remember that the definition of a sequence $s_n$ converging to $s$ means for every $\epsilon > 0$ there's some $N(\epsilon)$ so that $$ \lvert s_n - s \rvert < \epsilon $$ for every $n \ge N$.
The important part is that after some fixed point in the sequence all you do is get closer and closer to $s$. Intuitively I hope you can then see since the sequence only gets closer to $s$ all the terms after $s_N$ will be getting closer and closer as well (i.e. it's a cauchy sequence).
To target your specific counter example of a sequence that gets close to $s$ then gets really far from $s$ then converges back to $s$ again note again that the $N$ needs to be so that all terms after $s_N$ need to be getting closer and closer to $s$. So the $N$ that would need to be chosen would need to be at the point in the sequence when it goes back to converge a second time (since otherwise it wouldn't be true that $s_n$ is close to $s$ for every $n \ge N$.
I hope this is clear and helps. Let me know if this is confusing!