It is usual to define the tangent bundle $TM$ as the disjoint union of all tangent space and then to define vector fields as sections of \begin{align} TM=\bigsqcup_{p\in M}T_pM=\bigcup_{p\in M}T_pM\times\{p\}&\to M\\ (v,p)&\mapsto p \end{align} (I am reading John Lee's book, where tangent vectors are introduced as derivations, such that $T_pM\cap T_qM\neq\emptyset$.)
Why don't we simply define $TM=\bigcup_{p\in M}T_pM$ and say that a vector field is a map $\omega\colon M\to TM$ with $\omega_p\in T_pM$ for all $p\in M$.
Isn't this the essential property of a vector field: That is assigns to all $p\in M$ an element of $T_pM$?
An analogous question arises for Differential forms.
An attempt to clarify the question: I have to prepare a talk about the Maxwell equations in terms of differential forms and I have an audience who does neither know what a manifold is, nor what a tensor ist. I have 30 minutes for a crash course in this stuff. This means that I have to leave out as much information as possible, but I want everything I say to be correct. So one question I asked myself is: Do I miss out on something if I don't explain what disjoint unions and sections are and simply give them my definition above? Is there a good reason to define the tangent bundle as the disjoint union of tangent spaces instead of the ordinary union (besides wanting to introduce the notion of sections)? But this are questions I already asked myself before having to give this talk.
There are two major issues here.
First of all, the only way for the union to not be disjoint and make any sense at all is if the tangent spaces are assumed to live in a common universal set, which isn't generally the case.
Secondly, even if you embed the tangent spaces in a common universe, e.g. by embedding the manifold inside some Euclidean space, then you lose crucial information by taking a regular union, since the line between tangent vectors and points becomes blurred and points living in distinct tangent spaces may get identified. For example, consider the tangent bundle of the circle embedded in $\Bbb{R}^2$, as in the following picture:
By taking a regular union, you get the subset of $\Bbb{R}^2$ consisting of all the points in red as your tangent bundle. But then all the points which lie on multiple lines "forget" which tangent space they belong to. For example, the point $(1,1)$ lies on the tangent space at $(1,0)$ as well as the tangent space at $(0,1)$. Therefore you lose the canonical surjection $\bigcup_p T_pM \to M$ which is used, among many other things, to endow the tangent bundle with a manifold structure. Disaster!
Finally, to adress the part where you mention vector fields: it is important to note that such objects are not mere set-theoretic sections of the map $\bigcup_p T_pM \to M$; they are continuous or smooth sections. And in order for this to make sense, we need a topology/smooth structure on the tangent bundle.