What's the intuition behind defining $\|x\|_{\infty} = \max_{1 \le i \le n}\{|x_i|\}$ on the space of ordered $n$-tuples of complex numbers?
I'm asking because I've been asked to find a norm on the space of complex $m \times n$ matrices that is the analogue of $\|\cdot \|_{\infty}$. I looked around and Wikipedia mentions that $$\|A\|\ _{\infty} = \max_{1 \le i \le m} \sum_{j=1}^n |a_{ij}|.$$
Can someone explain how/why this is the proper analogue and also answer the first question I asked?
Actually your question is the combination of two questions.
About your first question: You certainly know the Euclidean norm, $$\left\|v\right\|_2 = \sqrt{\sum_{k=1}^n \left|v_k\right|^2} = \left(\sum_{k=1}^n \left|v_k\right|^2\right)^{\frac{1}{2}}$$ derived from the Euclidean scalar product. Note that I used absolute value bars here, which are superfluous in real vector spaces, but in complex vector spaces, they are necessary.
Now you see that there appears a number, $2$, here at several places. So a very natural question is: What if I replace that $2$ consistently with another number? Well, it turns out that for any number $\alpha\ge 1$ you indeed again get a norm, $$\left\|v\right\|_\alpha = \left(\sum_{k=1}^n\left|v_k\right|^\alpha\right)^{\frac{1}{\alpha}}$$ Moreover, it turns out that the "lower border" norm $\left\|\cdot\right\|_1$ is sort of a maximal norm: For any norm with $\left\|e_k\right\| = 1$ for all standard basis vectors $e_k$, we have $\left\|v\right\| \le \left\|v\right\|_1$ for any $v\in\mathbb R^n$. Equivalently, the unit ball of the vector-$1$ norm is the convex hull of the set $\{\pm e_k:k=1\ldots n\}$. In three dimensions it's the octahedron whose corners are exactly given by those vectors.
The next natural question is then, whether there's also a norm that's minimal in the same sense that $\left\|\cdot\right\|_1$ is maximal. The obvious place to look is at the "other end" of the vector $\alpha$ norms, that is, $\alpha\to\infty$. And indeed, the limit exists and is $$\left\|v\right\|_\infty := \lim_{\alpha\to\infty} \left\|v\right\|_\alpha = \max\{v_k: K = 1,\ldots,n\}$$
The corresponding unit ball is the convex hull of the set $\{\pm e_1\pm e_2\pm\dots\pm e_n\}$. It is geometrically easy to see that adding any point outside that set would cause one of the unit vectors no longer be on the border of the convex hull. In three dimensions, this is the cube of side length 2 centred at the origin, with the unit vectors at the middle of each face.
Now on your question about the matrix norm.
This is not the analogue to the vector norm. Rather it is the operator norm induced my the $\infty$ norm. That is, it is the norm defined by $$\left\|A\right\|_\infty = \sup\left\{\frac{\left\|Av\right\|_\infty}{\left\|v\right\|_\infty}:v\in\mathbb R^n\setminus\{0\}\right\}$$