When trying to understand euclidean Vectorspace, I asked myself the question, why one would define the inner Product by the following three criteria:
1) linearity in the first argument
2) Symmetry and
3) positive definiteness
Why have mathematicians invented the inner product? What special properties does such a function have? It must have had a reason to be invented. So far I couldn't really find a proper answer to this question on the internet, since it is frankly an unusual question to ask. Thank you very much for your answer in advance!
$$\|\lambda u\|^2=⟨\lambda u,\lambda u⟩=\lambda\overline{\lambda}⟨u,u⟩$$ $\lambda\overline{\lambda}$ is always a real number because of linearity in the first argument you get compatibility with the definition of a norm. As we need inner product to define norm also. As @celtschk mentioned linearity can be define on second argument also$(\text{similar reasoning})$.
Symmetry is generally part of the definition. In linear algebra Inner product comes first axiomatically anything that has three property:
$(i)$ symmetric
$(ii)$ Distributive
$(iii)$ positive definiteness
personally I like to describe inner product as a definite positive symmetric bilinear form.
If you familiar with dot product then you can remember that it was used to find angle and norm. But in abstract you can't define norm and angle so easily. Think about polynomials. How could you define length,angle of polynomials$?$ So, In abstract sense inner product come first(axiomatically) to rescue them.