While discussing the sum of a particular series, $\sum\limits_{n=0}^{\infty}{\left(-1\right)}^n$ (a sum that I've heard is alleged to be equal to $\frac{1}{2}$), it was mentioned to me that addition is not necessarily commutative when you are adding an infinite number of terms, and that the so-called proof of the aforementioned allegation is flawed. If this is correct, can somebody please clarify or explain to me if, why, or how the commutative property of addition can fail under such circumstances?
[edit] Thank you all for the responses so far, but the primary purpose of my question was to understand WHY the commutative property would allegedly not apply to infinite series such as the one I mentioned above. I'm not asking for why it should be equal to $\frac{1}{2}$ or why it should not be... I'm wanting to understand what's wrong with applying the commutative property of addition to make it more convenient to compute with such a series, because if nothing is wrong with applying the commutative property in such a case, then it seems to follow that $\sum\limits_{n=0}^{\infty}{\left(-1\right)}^n$ IS equal to $\frac{1}{2}$... And if really is not equal to $\frac{1}{2}$, then there must be some underlying reason why commutative property of addition doesn't apply. I am asking what that reason is.
I know it sounds like I'm avoiding the real question, but here we go:
Q: "WHY the commutative property would allegedly not apply to infinite series such as the one I mentioned above"
A: Why would it?
This is one way to look at things, which I find intuitive but some may not:
The commutative property of addition is that $a+b=b+a$. Technically, it applies only to sums of two numbers! Using the associativity of sum, we may apply this repeatedly to rearrange a finite sum using a finite number of steps (where between each $=$ sign we have swapped only two adjacent summands). Even if the sum is $\sum_{k=0}^n a_k$ with a finite $n$, we know that whatever $n$ is, we would be able to rearrange the terms using the commutativity rule, and thus we may rearrange the terms in $\sum_{k=0}^n a_k$ arbitrarily even if we don't know $n$.
However, rearranging infinite number of terms in e.g. $\sum_{k=0}^\infty \frac{(-1)^k}{k}$ cannot be done by applying the commutativity rule repeatedly! I think @josh314's answer explains infinte sums very nicely, so I won't repeat it here.
An example of why we are generally not allowed to just apply any rule an infinite number of times: Let's use the rule "if $S\in \mathbb{N}$ is a finite set, $S \cup \{\max S + 1 \}$ is a finite set". Now apply the rule to $\{0\}$ repeatedly, we get $\{0,1\}$, $\{0,1,2\}$, $\dots$, and every one of them indeed is a finite set. However, if we were to apply the rule "an infinite number of times", we would end up concluding that $\mathbb{N}$ is a finite set.