To be clear, I'm having trouble with proving both equalities, and would appreciate a hint. I'm also not sure why $1^+$ must be used as opposed to $1^-$. I'm not sure about the definition of $\zeta(x), x\le1$ (I encountered these equations here, to provide context).
The first one reduces thusly $$\gamma=\lim_{s\rightarrow 1^+}\sum_{n=1}^{\infty}\left(\frac{1}{n^s}-\frac{1}{s^n}\right)$$ $$=\lim_{s\rightarrow1^+}\left(\zeta(s)-\frac{\frac{1}{s}}{1-\frac{1}{s}}\right)=\lim_{s\rightarrow1^+}\left(\zeta(s)-\frac{1}{s-1}\right)$$ As $\gamma=\lim_{n\rightarrow \infty}\bigl(H_n-\ln(n)\bigr)$, the above equality is equivalent to $$\lim_{s\rightarrow 0^+}\frac{1}{s}-\lim_{n\rightarrow \infty}\ln(n)=0$$ , although I am implicitly using $$\lim_{n \rightarrow \infty}\sum_{k=1}^{n}\frac{1}{k}=\lim_{m \rightarrow 1^+}\sum_{k=1}^{\infty}\frac{1}{k^m}$$ which is may be wrong as the limits are approached differently. Regardless, I'm not sure how to progress from there.
I have even less of an idea about how to go about solving the second equality, perhaps because I have not dealt with antisymmetric limits before.
Dave Renfro's paper ’Euler's Constant $\gamma$' and David Speyer's link should be helpful for an elementary derivation of the first part i.e. get the limit : $$\tag{0}\gamma=\lim_{s\rightarrow 1^+}\left[\zeta(s)-\frac{1}{s-1}\right]$$ As indicated by Gerry your problem was to go from a well defined limit (the limit of the difference $\,\zeta(s)-\frac{1}{s-1}\,$ as $\,s\rightarrow1^+$) to the difference of the limits when these limits are both infinite ! $$-$$ Concerning your second limit : $$\tag{1}\gamma=\lim_{s\to0}\frac{\zeta(1+s)+\zeta(1-s)}{2}$$ this will require a better definition of $\zeta\,$ than $\,\displaystyle\zeta(s):=\sum_{n=1}^{\infty} \frac{1}{n^s}$ since this definition is valid only for $\Re(s)>1$.
To go further you may use the Dirichlet eta function with the idea of converting a sum of positive terms to an alternate sum so that $\zeta$ may then be written as : $$\tag{2}\zeta(s)=-\frac 1{1-2^{1-s}}\sum_{n=1}^{\infty} \frac{(-1)^n}{n^s}$$ which is convergent for any complex $s$ such that $\,\Re(s)>0,\ s\not =1\,$ or better use the analytic extension of $\zeta$ in the whole complex plane except $s=1$ where $\zeta\,$ has a simple pole (as you found).
To see how to obtain the alternate series $(2)$ (and convergence proof) as well as get some intuitive ideas about analytic continuation of $\zeta\,$ you may see this answer.
Let's note that once the Laurent series of $\zeta$ at $s=1$ obtained with the simple pole at $1$ : $$\tag{3}\zeta(s)=\frac 1{s-1}+\sum_{n=0}^\infty \frac{(-1)^n}{n!}\gamma_n\;(s-1)^n$$ with $\gamma_n$ the Stieltjes constants and $\gamma_0=\gamma$ your Euler constant then the limit of $\zeta(s)-\frac 1{s-1}$ at $s\to 1$ is rather straightforward.
Using the alternate series or the analytic extension you'll get that the limit was in fact given by (note that $\,s\rightarrow1^+$ was replaced by $\,s\rightarrow1$) : $$\gamma=\lim_{s\rightarrow 1}\left[\zeta(s)-\frac{1}{s-1}\right]=\lim_{z\rightarrow 0}\left[\zeta(1+z)-\frac{1}z\right]$$
The idea is simply to rewrite the $z$ at the right as $+s$ and as $-s$ and to return the mean value to get : $$\gamma=\lim_{s\rightarrow 0}\frac 12\left[\left(\zeta(1+s)-\frac{1}s\right)+\left(\zeta(1-s)-\frac{1}{-s}\right)\right]$$ or $$\gamma=\lim_{s\rightarrow 0}\frac {\zeta(1+s)+\zeta(1-s)}2$$
Let's conclude with an elementary proof using the alternate series $(2)$ :
\begin{align} \zeta(1+s)+\zeta(1-s)&=\sum_{n=1}^{\infty}\frac 1{2^{-s}-1} \frac{(-1)^n}{n^{1+s}}+\frac 1{2^{s}-1} \frac{(-1)^n}{n^{1-s}}\\ &=\sum_{n=1}^{\infty}\frac{(-1)^n}n\left[\frac 1{2^{-s}-1} \frac 1{n^{s}}+\frac 1{2^{s}-1} \frac 1{n^{-s}}\right]\\ &=\sum_{n=1}^{\infty}\frac{(-1)^n}n\left[\left(e^{-s\ln(2)}-1\right)^{-1}e^{-s\ln(n)} +\left(e^{s\ln(2)}-1\right)^{-1}e^{s\ln(n)}\right]\\ &=\sum_{n=1}^{\infty}\frac{(-1)^n}n\left[2\frac{\ln(n)}{\ln(2)}-1+\sum_{m=1}^\infty s^{2m}\,P_{2m}(\ln(m))\right]\\ \end{align} with $P_{2m}$ polynomials depending of $\ln(n)$ and constants only.
But $\lim_{n\to\infty}\frac{\ln(n)^k}n=0$ for any nonnegative integer $k$ so that we get another nice series equal to $\gamma$ : $$ \lim_{s\rightarrow 0}\frac {\zeta(1+s)+\zeta(1-s)}2=\sum_{n=1}^{\infty}\frac{(-1)^n}n\,\left(\frac{\ln(n)}{\ln(2)}-\frac 12\right)=\gamma$$