I have read countless proofs that $gHg^{-1}$ is a subgroup of H but there is one step in the part about proving the inverse which I just cannot get my head around:
$(ghg^{-1})^{-1}=(g^{-1})^{-1}h^{-1}g^{-1}$
I just can't understand why it isn't:
$(ghg^{-1})^{-1}=g^{-1}h^{-1}(g^{-1})^{-1}$
Obviously there is something very fundamental/simple I don't understand so would appreciate if someone could explain this step to me.
Well, let's multiply them!
\begin{align} & \ \ \ \ \ (ghg^{-1})\cdot(g^{-1})^{-1}h^{-1}g^{-1}\\ &= gh(g^{-1}(g^{-1})^{-1})h^{-1}g^{-1}\\ &= gh(1)h^{-1}g^{-1}\\ &= g(hh^{-1})g^{-1}\\ &= g(1)g^{-1}\\ &= gg^{-1}\\ &=1 \end{align}
So really, the inverse of $ghg^{-1}$ is $(ghg^{-1})^{-1}=(g^{-1})^{-1}h^{-1}g^{-1}$.
Try multiplying $ghg^{-1}$ by what you thought the inverse was, $g^{-1}h^{-1}(g^{-1})^{-1}$, and you'll see the terms won't cancel, and the expression is not (necessarily) $1$.