Why is establishing the absolute consistency of ZFC impossible? What are the fundamental limitations that prohibit us with coming up with a proof?
EDIT: This post seems to make the most sense. In short: if we were to come up with a mathematical proof of the consistency of ZFC, we would be able to mimic that proof inside ZFC. Ergo, if ZFC is consistent, there can be no proof that it is.
There's a level on which the answer is simply "because it turns out the be probably impossible" on a certain level. I'm not sure how much of any of this can be thought of as intuitive. Godel's Second Incompleteness Theorem states explicitly that if ZFC can prove its own consistency, then it is in fact inconsistent. The proof is very technical and relies heavily on the proof of the first incompleteness theorem.
The basic idea goes like this: Assume $T$ is a consistent set of axioms that meets a certain criterion (which ZFC does). Assume $T$ is able to prove its own consistency, and let $P$ be the unprovable statement in $T$ that says "there exists a proof of $P'$ if and only if $P'$ is false" for some statement $P'$. The construction of such a statement is doable with minor modifications to the standard proof of the first incompleteness theorem (specifically introducing a way to encode "P is provable" in the language of $T$). $T$ can prove the statement "$P$ is not provable" since $T$ can prove its own consistency, and $T$ can prove that "$P$ is not provable" is equivalent to $P$ itself! Therefore $T$ can in fact prove $P$, contradiction.
If there were a more powerful set of axioms that mathematicians agreed upon, then those axioms might be able to prove that ZFC is consistent, but there are two problems. First, Godel's Second Theorem applies to every system strong enough to prove the consistency of ZFC, so there is no axiomatic system able to prove both its own consistency and that of ZFC. Second, there is no such agreed upon more powerful set of axioms anyways (though one could argue that "ZFC plus the consistency of ZFC" is something most mathematicians assume). If we agreed on some such axiomatic system we could prove that ZFC was consistent, but only within the framework of a larger system whose consistency we cannot prove, which calls into doubt our proof of the consistency of ZFC.