The following are from O'Wells' book p.156-157.
Let $E$ be a complex vector space of complex dimension $n$. Let $E'$ be the real dual space to the underlying real vector space of $E$, and let $F = E'\otimes_R\mathbb{C}$ be the complex vector space of complex-valued real-linear mappings of $E$ to $\mathbb{C}$.
My question is why $h=\sum h_{ij}z_i\otimes\bar{z_j}$? It's not clear why there are no terms like $z_i\otimes z_j$, $\bar{z_i}\otimes z_j$...
Also, I wonder why $S$ is an Euclidean inner product, because if so, if we represent $z_i=x_i+y_i$, $\bar{z_i}=x_i-y_i$, then $S$ would be in the form of $x_i\otimes x_j$+$y_i\otimes y_j$+$x_j\otimes x_i+y_j\otimes y_i$, but the practical computation tells me that $S$ has terms like $x_i\otimes y_j$ with coefficients from $h_{ij}$.

The matrix representation of \begin{equation} \underset{\mu\nu}\sum h_{\mu\nu}z_\mu\otimes \bar z_\nu \end{equation} in the case where $\mu=1,2$ and $\nu=1,2$ w.r.t. to the basis $\{z_1, z_2\}$ is \begin{equation} [h]_z=\begin{bmatrix} h_{11}&h_{12}\\ h_{21}&h_{22} \end{bmatrix} \end{equation} that for its hermiticity and putting $h':=\Re h_{\mu\nu}$ and $h'':=\Im h_{\mu\nu}$ it is equal to: \begin{equation} \begin{bmatrix} h'_{11}+ih''_{11}&h'_{12}+ih''_{12}\\ h'_{21}+ih''_{21}&h'_{22}+ih''_{22} \end{bmatrix} = \begin{bmatrix} h'_{11}&h'_{12}+ih''_{12}\\ h'_{12}-ih''_{12}&h'_{22} \end{bmatrix} =\\= \begin{bmatrix} h'_{11}&h'_{12}\\ h'_{12}&h'_{22} \end{bmatrix} +i \begin{bmatrix} 0&h''_{12}\\ -h''_{12}&0 \end{bmatrix} :=[S]_z+[A]_z \end{equation} where $[S]_z$ symmetric and $[A]_z$ antisymmetric are the matrix representation of the real and immaginary parts of $h$ in the given basis.
W.r.t. to the basis $(x_1,x_2,y_1,y_2)$, being \begin{equation} \underset{\mu\nu}\sum h_{\mu\nu}z_\mu\otimes \bar z_\nu=\\ \underset{\mu\nu}\sum h'_{\mu\nu}(x_\mu\otimes x_\nu + y_\mu\otimes y_\nu - ix_\mu\otimes y_\nu +i y_\mu\otimes x_\nu)+h''_{\mu\nu}(x_\mu\otimes y_\nu - y_\mu\otimes x_\nu + ix_\mu\otimes x_\nu +i y_\mu\otimes y_\nu) \end{equation} it is: \begin{equation} [h]_{xy}=\begin{bmatrix} h'_{11}+ih''_{11}&h'_{12}+ih''_{12}&-ih'_{11}+h''_{11}&-ih'_{12}+h''_{12}\\ h'_{21}+ih''_{21}&h'_{22}+ih''_{22}&-ih'_{21}+h''_{21}&-ih'_{22}+h''_{22}\\ ih'_{11}-h''_{11}&ih'_{12}-h''_{12}&h'_{11}+ih''_{11}&h'_{12}+ih''_{12}\\ ih'_{21}-h''_{21}&ih'_{22}-h''_{22}&h'_{21}+ih''_{21}&h'_{22}+ih''_{22}\\ \end{bmatrix} =\\\overset{\begin{matrix}h''_{11}=h''_{22}=0\\h'_{21}=-h'_{12}\end{matrix}}= \begin{bmatrix} h'_{11}&h'_{12}+ih''_{12}&-ih'_{11}&-ih'_{12}+h''_{12}\\ h'_{12}-ih''_{12}&h'_{22}&-ih'_{12}-h''_{12}&-ih'_{22}\\ ih'_{11}&ih'_{12}-h''_{12}&h'_{11}&h'_{12}+ih''_{12}\\ ih'_{12}+h''_{12}&ih'_{22}&h'_{12}-ih''_{12}&h'_{22}\\ \end{bmatrix} =\\= \begin{bmatrix} h'_{11}&h'_{12}&0&h''_{12}\\ h'_{12}&h'_{22}&-h''_{12}&0\\ 0&-h''_{12}&h'_{11}&h'_{12}\\ h''_{12}&0&h'_{12}&h'_{22}\\ \end{bmatrix} +i \begin{bmatrix} 0&h''_{12}&-h'_{11}&-h'_{12}\\ -h''_{12}&0&-h'_{12}&-h'_{22}\\ h'_{11}&h'_{12}&0&h''_{12}\\ h'_{12}&h'_{22}&-h''_{12}&0\\ \end{bmatrix} :=\\:=[S]_{xy}+i[A]_{xy} \end{equation} where $[S]_{xy}$ symmetric and $[A]_{xy}$ antisymmetric are the matrix representation of the real and immaginary parts of $h$ in the given basis.
Generalization to higher dimension is straightforward.
ADDED:
There are in $S$ terms like $x_\mu\otimes y_\nu$, but they appear with the corresponding terms $y_\nu\otimes x_\mu$, both multiplied by the same coefficient.
In particular this terms $x_1\otimes y_1$, $x_2\otimes y_2$, $y_1\otimes x_1$ and $y_2\otimes x_2$ are missing in $[S]_{xy}$ (indeed their coefficients are zero), and the term $x_1\otimes y_2$ appears in $[S]_{xy}$ together with $y_2\otimes x_1$ multiplied by the same coefficient $h''_{12}$ and the $x_2\otimes y_1$ appears in $[S]_{xy}$ together with $y_1\otimes x_2$ multiplied by the same coefficient $-h''_{12}$: so $S$ is symmetric.
Moreover $S$ is positive definite (which together with its symmetry means that $S$ is Euclidean) because $h$ (and, of course, $[h]_{xy}$) is so by definition, and $A(v,v)=0$ as you can see from $[A]_{xy}$.