This trivial question is all about reasoning (intuition) and obviously not proving. I know $a\cdot b = b\cdot a$ from very early school years and it's considered intuitive. A simple proof is by taking a rectangle that is $2 \cdot 7$ and calculate the area which is $14$. The same is true if we rotate the rectangle. That however is a just the proof, it just does not explain the intuition behind this trivial theorem.
But, how can you say that when we add up seven twos, the result is equal to adding up two sevens?
Edit: It's about the why and not how and in fact I think it needs a bit of philosophical answer.
This is not a rigorous proof but I can give sort of an intuition.
It's because addition is commutative and Every Natural number comparatively larger can be represented as sum of two or more smaller numbers. for example:
$2 \cdot 4$ basically means adding two four times, i.e $2+2+2+2$ which turns out to be $8$: $$2 \cdot 4 = 2+2+2+2 = 8,$$ whereas $4 \cdot 2$ means adding four two times, i.e $4+4$ BUT $4 = 2+2$. Therefore $4+4$ becomes $(2+2) + (2+2)$. Since addition is commutative I can remove the brackets and it becomes $2+2+2+2$ which is equal to $8$: $$4\cdot 2 = 4+4 = (2+2)+(2+2) = 2+2+2+2 = 8.$$ Hence multiplication is commutative. And if you ask a bit more like why addition is commutative it's what seems so at least from our human reasoning and observation. Another reason I have stated this is precisely why division ain't commutative – because subtraction is not commutative.