Why is $S_{n,3} = \frac{1}{6}(3^n - 3\cdot2^n+3)$?
I know that $S(n,3)=3S(n-1,3)+S(n-1,2)$
Where we know $S(n,2)=2S(n-1,2)+1$
We can also see the latter recurrence leads to $S(n,2)=2^{n-1}-1$
So we get $S(n,2)=2s(n-1,2)+2^{n-1}-1$
I am new to Stirling, so I don't know how to continue..
That is a standard linear recurrence for $S(n,3)$ of the form $a(n+1)=ca(n)+b(n)$.
Dividing by $c^{n+1}$, this becomes $a(n+1)/c^{n+1}=a(n)/c^{n}+b(n)/c^{n+1}$.
Letting $d(n)=a(n)/c^{n}$, this become $d(n+1)=d(n)+b(n)/c^{n+1}$ which can readily be solved.
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$d(n+1)=d(n)+b(n)/c^{n+1}$ becomes, using $k$ instead of $n$, $d(k+1)-d(k) =b(k)/c^{k+1}$.
Summing from $0$ to $n-1$,
$\begin{array}\\ d(n)-d(0) &=\sum_{k=0}^{n-1}(d(k+1)-d(k))\\ &=\sum_{k=0}^{n-1}\dfrac{b(k)}{c^{k+1}}\\ &=\sum_{k=0}^{n-1}\dfrac{2^{k-1}-1}{c^{k+1}} \qquad\text{since }b(n) = 2^{n-1}-1\\ &=\sum_{k=0}^{n-1}\dfrac{2^{k-1}}{c^{k+1}}-\sum_{k=0}^{n-1}\dfrac{1}{c^{k+1}}\\ &=\dfrac{1}{2c}\sum_{k=0}^{n-1}\dfrac{2^{k}}{c^{k}}-\dfrac1{c}\sum_{k=0}^{n-1}\dfrac{1}{c^{k}}\\ &=\dfrac{1}{2c}\dfrac{1-(2/c)^n}{1-2/c}-\dfrac1{c}\dfrac{1-(1/c)^n}{1-1/c}\\ &=\dfrac{1-(2/c)^n}{2c-2}-\dfrac{1-(1/c)^n}{c-1}\\ &=\dfrac{c^n-2^n}{2(c-1)c^n}-\dfrac{c^n-1}{(c-1)c^n}\\ &=\dfrac{c^n-2^n-2(c^n-1)}{2(c-1)c^n}\\ &=\dfrac{-c^n-2^n+2}{2(c-1)c^n}\\ \text{so}\\ \dfrac{a(n)}{c^n}-a(0) &=\dfrac{-c^n-2^n+2}{2(c-1)c^n}\\ \text{or}\\ a(n)-a(0)c^n &=\dfrac{-c^n-2^n+2}{2(c-1)}\\ \end{array} $
or
$\begin{array}\\ a(n) &=a(0)c^n+\dfrac{-c^n-2^n+2}{2(c-1)}\\ &=c^n(a(0)-\dfrac1{2(c-1)}-\dfrac{2^n-2}{2(c-1)}\\ &=c^n(a(0)-\dfrac1{2(c-1)}-\dfrac{2^{n-1}-1}{c-1}\\ &=3^n(a(0)-\dfrac1{4}-\dfrac{2^{n-1}-1}{2} \qquad\text{since }c = 3\\ \end{array} $