I had always assumed that the operator norm of a matrix $A$:
$$\|A\|_p = \sup\limits_{\|v\|_p \neq 0}\dfrac{\|Av\|_p}{\|v\|_p}$$
was the same as the norm of a matrix:
$${\displaystyle \|A\|_{p}= \left(\sum _{i=1}^{m}\sum _{j=1}^{n}|a_{ij}|^{p}\right)^{1/p}}$$
However, this post seems to shatter my assumption: 2-norm vs operator norm. Upon further examination, it seems that the operator norm and matrix norm only coincide (=) for the matrix $1$-norm or the matrix $\infty$-norm (and extremely limited cases for matrix $2$-norm).
Why is this so? Is there a theorem that relates the operator norm with matrix $1$ or $\infty$ norm and show their equality?
Note:

As mentioned by @user1551 operator norm induced by 1-norm and $\infty$-norm are not equal to matrix 1 and $\infty$ norm. Moreover Forbenius norm or matrix-2 norm is always greater than equal to operator norm induced by 2-norm because operator norm induced by 2-norm is maximum singular value(by definition) and matrix 2-norm is $(\sum_i\sigma_i^2)^\frac{1}{2}$. To see this note :$$\left(\sum _{i=1}^{m}\sum _{j=1}^{n}|a_{ij}|^{2}\right)=trace(A^TA)=\sum_i eigenvalue_i(A^TA)=\sum_i singularvalue_i(A)^2=\sum_i \sigma_i^2$$